That Sex Chick

Today, Bryn and her ex-husband Chris Marhefka take us behind the scenes of what their 10-year relationship looked like where sex wasn’t working and how they each stepped into their best sexual selves on the other side of it. They talk about the spicy energy and wild sex of new relationships, and how the lack of intention and communication led to avoidance, playing a role in their divorce. Bryn and Chris share how individually hiring sex coaches after separating helped them heal limiting beliefs, take personal responsibility, strengthen communication, and now have deeply fulfilling sex lives.Today on That Sex Chick:The start of Bryn & Chris’ relationship & what caused the breakdownChris’ sexual beginning: lack of sex talks, porn, and being under the influenceNew relationship energy & wild sex leading to avoidance and resentmentHow creating space leads to desireHow they evolved by hiring sex coaches after separatingTips for approaching tough conversations with your partnerResources:Follow Chris: @chrismarhefka Chris’ Podcast: Fully ExpressedFollow Bryn: @bryndaylor Connect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resourcesFacebook Group: That Sex Group Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Host of The Kelli Show and CEO of Soulfire Productions, Kelli Tennant, is back on the show! Today, Alexa and Kelli talk about creating their own rules in relationships outside of societal norms, and how this has led to healing, stronger communication, and novel experiences in the bedroom. Kelli shares her journey leading up to having sex with women and threesomes with her fiancé, Conner, and she shares their dating process for finding others to play with.Today on That Sex Chick:Having sex with women & Kelli’s journey leading up to this intimacySpankings, kink, and the nuances of sexualityHow being monogamish has deepened Kelli and her fiancé’s relationshipCommunicating your fear-based stories to your partnerHow intimacy with women can heal sisterhood woundsHow Kelli and Conner approach finding a thirdWork with The Sex & Love Co Team! Visit www.thatsexchick.com/work-with-me to apply for coaching.Follow Kelli:Instagram: @kellimtennant Website: kellitennant.com Podcast: The Kelli ShowListen: F*ck Social Norms & Step Into Your TruthConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resourcesFacebook Group: That Sex Group Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In today’s episode, Jordan interviews Alexa for her 33rd birthday! As she moves into this new year, Lex vulnerably shares what’s on her heart around familial relationships, releasing resentment, and closing loops. Jordan also asks some juicy questions on dating, Lex’s favorite advice on relationships, and her best sex experience at age 32. They wrap up the episode with Jordan sharing his birthday wish for Lex, and Lex sharing what she wants to leave behind and bring with her into this new year.Today on That Sex Chick:Healing Alexa’s relationship with her fatherAlexa’s relationship with her bodyReducing shame around STIs and multiple partnersFavorite advice Alexa’s been given around love & being a team with JordanAlexa’s best sex experience at age 32! What Alexa wants to leave behind and take forward with her this yearJordan’s birthday wish for Alexa Connect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resourcesFacebook Group: That Sex Group Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Jordan are delving into how they are navigating bringing a third into their relationship to play! You’ll hear the journey that brought them to this place, including what they’ve understood relationships to be in the past and how this allows them to build a stronger foundation with more connection and love. They talk about their concerns, hesitations, what they’re most excited about, along with the process of finding an incredible woman to treat like a queen!Today on That Sex Chick:Why Alexa & Jordan are looking to play with othersConcerns and hesitations around bringing others into their relationshipWhat they are most excited about & how it’ll positively challenge themDynamics to navigate with having a thirdTheir past experience with a threesome & their most recent date nightHow to approach finding a third and what they each are looking for when using FeeldHow they want their third to feel after the experience Resources:Follow Jordan: @conscious.bro Dating app: FeeldFacebook Group: That Sex GroupReferenced book: Playing Well with OthersConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Bryn are unpacking the new erotic Netflix series, ‘Sex/Life’. The ladies reveal their thoughts on the show, exploring various scenes and the positive and shadow aspects of the series. This episode is for anyone who has watched ‘Sex/Life’ from start to finish because there are SPOILERS!Today on That Sex Chick:Alexa & Bryn’s perspectives on the series “Sex/Life”The waning passion in Billie’s marriage & the lack of communication between partnersPersonal responsibility, knowing your desires, & communicating your needsWhat to do if you’re challenged by dick sizeFriendships and how they play a role in your sex lifeHow play and fantasy evolve throughout the showThe sexual revolution we are moving intoResources:Follow Bryn: @bryndaylor For painful sex: ohnut.co Referenced episodes: Play Parties, Erotic Blueprints, + Fantasy Exploration with Kimi Inch and The Sex & Love Co Team ; Sex Parties Done Right with Lila DonnoloConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Bryn are giving you a peek into the language of kink! Exhibitionist, switch, brat, rope bunny… learn through their delicious stories what these terms mean, how you may connect with them, and the imagination and play behind all of it.Today on That Sex Chick:Juicy stories explaining the language of kinkHow Alexa & Jordan use erotic disciplineExperience transformation through consensual pain and pleasureHow kink is a way for adults to use curiosity, imagination, & play Watching others & being seen in your pleasureDom and sub space as altered state of consciousness Resources:Follow Bryn: @bryndaylor Guide to Kink: https://alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/offers/NVMB5RLcConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready to hear about The Sex & Love Co weekend of play! Alexa is joined by her team, Bryn Daylor and Jordan Bowditch, and professional dominatrix and somatic therapist, Kimi Inch. The foursome dives deep into their sexy weekend full of personal growth, sharing the various ways this play party workshop was educational, entertaining, empowering, and erotic!Today on That Sex Chick:The physical and emotional prep for the play partyWhat went into choosing the workshops for the play partyDeepen your sexual experience by understanding your erotic blueprintThe intentional setup of the play party spaceFantasy exercise using erotic language Pain as an access point to pleasure and laughter  Follow Kimi:Instagram: @kimiinch Email: kimi@kimiinch.com Website: www.kimiinch.com Connect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Arielle D'Angelo is an LGBTQ+ Self-Love Coach and founder of WeTheRainbow. Today, Elle shares her personal story of discovering her own sexuality and what her coming out process was like. Elle and Alexa also talk about navigating coming out, sex toys, and approaching same-sex sexual experiences! This is a beautiful conversation about self-love, acceptance, and embracing your sexuality.Today on That Sex Chick:Elle’s coming out process & discovering her own sexualityUsing labels and identities when it feels empoweringNavigating coming out and loving yourself firstSex toys, scissoring, and same-sex sexual experiencesLGBTQ+: What more straight people should knowFollow Elle:Instagram: @arielledangelo ; @wetherainbowofficial Website: arielledangelo.com Connect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Hannah Deindorfer, a fairy godmother of female online fitness coaches, shares her body and sexuality struggles, BDSM exploration for trauma healing, collared relationships, and red flags when looking for a Dom. Topics include deriving worth from sexuality, experiences as a collared submissive, and insights on Dom/sub dynamics.

Dominance and submission aren’t only for the bedroom, and today you’re going to hear how this dynamic can lead to a deeply loving, trusting, fulfilling, and growth-oriented relationship. Andrew and Dawn share how their relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic, and how having these roles have enriched their relationship and sex life.Today on That Sex Chick:How Andrew & Dawn’s relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamicHow self-awareness, confidence, and personal growth played a role in developing a D/S relationshipWhat a 24/7, D/S dynamic looks like inside & outside the bedroomWhy conflict is almost nonexistent in Andrew & Dawn’s marriageRoles of the Dom & how the Dom leads the Sub to feel more free and happy Follow Andrew and Dawn:Instagram: @freeandfit.life Recommendations: Mating in Captivity ; Anna Rova ; Lorin KrennConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions