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Ever found yourself wondering why your child seems overwhelmed by choices or why a simple instruction can lead to confrontation? This week, Kaity and Adriane's conversation with Linda K. Murphy, a speech-language pathologist and RDI® Consultant, answers this question and more. You'll learn all about declarative language and its powerful role in connecting more deeply with our kids, especially those navigating social learning differences. Episode 37 also explores: 🔥 the impact of stress on learning🔥 techniques for managing decision-making anxiety🔥 practical examples of how parents and teachers can incorporate declarative language into their daily interactions🔥 the importance of creating space for learners to process information and express themselves🔥 tips for modeling self-regulation and emotional regulation throughout the day🔥 the concept of visual referencing🔥 and so much more!From engaging games to verbalizing coping strategies, you'll leave this episode with the tools to promote a more inviting and supportive approach to communication. So tune in now and learn how a shift in language can lead to a transformation in growth and well-being for both you and your child.KEY TAKEAWAYS:🔑 Declarative language involves making comments rather than asking questions or giving commands, creating a supportive and engaging environment for learners.🔑 Tone and nonverbal communication play a crucial role in declarative language, and it is important to align them with the positive intention of the communication.🔑 Modeling self-regulation and emotional regulation can help children learn to manage their own emotions and behaviors.ABOUT THE GUEST:Linda is a speech-language pathologist and RDI® Consultant. She co-founded Peer Projects Therapy From the Heart, a clinic in Beverly, MA, dedicated to helping kids and families by using a positive, thoughtful communication style that emphasizes understanding, patience, respect, and kindness. Linda has been working with individuals with social learning differences for over 25 years. She leads trainings on the topic of social learning, has authored Declarative Language Handbook, Co-Regulation Handbook, numerous articles, and co-authored the book Social Thinking and Me with Michelle Garcia Winner. Linda lives north of Boston with her husband and their two busy lovaGot a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

Join Kaity and Adriane in a conversation with Trevor MacKenzie about the power of inquiry-led learning. Discover the importance of building relationships, the different phases of the inquiry cycle, and the transformative potential of flipping traditional teaching methods. Learn how to foster curiosity, create a culture of excellence, and empower students through inquiry-based learning.

This week, Kaity and Adriane discuss a new approach to understanding and addressing kids' behavior.  Their conversation dives deep into the developmental expectations placed on children and the need for age-appropriate support. Plus, they introduce a problem-solving approach that empowers children to find solutions and build critical thinking skills. Episode 35 also explores: 🔥 parenting challenges and triumphs🔥 the power of patience🔥 the importance of modeling positive behavior🔥 technology's place in our kids' lives and how to support their digital exploration effectively🔥 and so much more!So tune in, forget everything you thought you knew about discipline, and discover how to guide your kids through life's tumbles with empathy and understanding. RELEVANT LINKS:WorksheetsRaising Human Beings: Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Child by Ross GreeneBeyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to Understand and Solve Children's Behavioral Challenges by Mona DelahookeDuct Tape Parenting by Vicki HoefleGot a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

This week, Kaity and Adriane chat with Peter Gray, research professor of psychology and neuroscience at Boston College and renowned author of "Free to Learn." This episode is all about the power of play in learning, shedding light on how self-directed exploration can ignite children's natural curiosity and shape their futures. Peter shares his journey into the field of education and his personal experience with his son's struggles in traditional schooling. He discusses the pivotal moment that led him to discover Sudbury Valley School, an alternative school focused on self-directed education. Peter also talks about his study on the graduates of Sudbury Valley School, which found they were successful in various careers, debunking the notion that traditional schooling is necessary for success. Episode 34 also explores: 🔥 the importance of play in cognitive and social development🔥 the definition of play🔥 the value of play in regulating emotions and developing essential skills for getting along with others🔥 the impact of play deprivation🔥 and so much more!ABOUT THE GUEST:Peter Gray is a research professor of psychology and neuroscience at Boston College who has conducted and published research in behavioral biology, developmental psychology, anthropology, and education. His recent research focuses on the role of play in human evolution and how children educate themselves through play and exploration when they are free to do so. He has expanded on these ideas in his book, "Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life."🔗 RELEVANT LINKS 🔗📖 Free to Learn🌐  Learn more🔑 TAKEAWAYS 🔑Play is an act of self-control and teaches children to follow rules.Children are better at following rules in play than in real life.Play is a creative and imaginative activity that exercises children's creativity and engages them in hypothetical deductive reasoning.Play is essential for children to develop autonomy, competence, and problem-solving skills.Schools often quash children's curiosity and problem-sGot a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

Caleb Collier, co-founder of The Forest School, discusses the practicality of self-directed learning, strategies for cultivating student agency, and the imperative of school leaders in transforming institutional norms. He also explores how parents can support their children's educational journey and align family expectations with student outcomes. The podcast explores the value of self-directed education and the role of influential parents in fostering a love of learning.

This week, Kaity and Adriane chat with KJ Althoff,  Director of Content for Big Life Journal. This episode is all about navigating a child's emotions and how it can lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves. KJ shares her insights into gentle parenting and fostering emotional literacy in children.This episode also explores: 🔥 the challenges of regulating our own emotions while teaching our children to manage theirs🔥 how co-regulating alongside kids can create a nurturing environment 🔥 the strategies of gentle parenting🔥 guiding with respect and patience🔥 children's developmental stages🔥 the impact of fear-based approaches🔥 and so much more!Learn all about resources like Big Life Journal and its new platform, GrowthMinded, that offer support for parents committed to raising resilient and kind-hearted children. So, join us for an insightful and candid exploration of emotional regulation and gentle parenting, and discover how we can create a generation that embraces their feelings with courage and self-compassion. You won't want to miss this episode!ABOUT THE GUEST:KJ is the Director of Content for Big Life Journal. She has also built her community on social media with over 100k followers on Instagram, sharing about her gentle parenting journey as well as healing from childhood wounds. She has a master's degree in mental health counseling and is also a certified parenting coach. KJ and her husband, Adam, have been married for seven years. They have a 6-year-old son, who is the reason KJ began her gentle and conscious parenting journey more than three years ago.🔗 RELEVANT LINKS 🔗 🌐 Big Life Journal🪴 GrowthMindedGot a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

This week, Kaity and Adriane chat with Seth Perler, an executive function coach who overcame his academic struggles and now offers hope to children facing similar challenges. They discuss learning differences, emphasizing the importance of advocating for each child's unique strengths and addressing the systemic roadblocks that can hinder their progress.This episode also explores: 🔥 the double-edged sword of labels🔥 tensions that teachers face🔥 the impact of recognizing every student's potential🔥 and so much more!You'll leave this episode with actionable strategies to assist children grappling with executive function hurdles. Whether establishing a curated study environment or breaking down organizational skills into color-coded victories, we look beyond the typical toolbox, encouraging positive reinforcement and the delicate art of advocacy without hovering. Join us for an episode that's not just about learning but about understanding, empathizing, and empowering learners.ABOUT THE GUEST:Seth wears many hats in the Executive Function, Neurodiversity, ADHD, 2e, and Education worlds: activist, coach, speaker, educator, vlogger, and guy who cares about seeing outside-the-box kids succeed. Seth also runs TEFOS, The Executive Function Online Summit.At the heart of it, Seth helps struggling learners navigate a baffling system so they can launch a successful future. And it all has to do with Executive Function. His weekly vlog at SethPerler.com gives game-changing answers in a sea of misguided educational fluff.RELEVANT LINKS:Seth's websiteGot a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

This week, Kaity & Adriane chat with Lenore Skenazy, author of "Free-Range Kids." You might have heard her called "America's Worst Mom." But don't let that moniker fool you! Lenore's journey from her kid's controversial subway ride to becoming a leading voice in child independence is nothing short of remarkable. In Episode 30 of The KindlED Podcast, we dive deep into the world of free-range parenting with the woman who started it all.This episode also explores:🔥 the importance of independence and autonomy in children🔥 why allowing kids to engage in real-world tasks isn't just good; it's essential for their development🔥 Let Grow's initiatives, including the intriguing 'Independence Therapy for Anxious Children'🔥 the role of unstructured play in a child's development and success🔥 how educators and parents can collaborate to foster environments that promote independence, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills🔥 and so much more!So, buckle up for an enlightening episode that challenges conventional parenting norms and lights the way to raising resilient, independent kids. ABOUT THE GUEST:After her newspaper column "Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone" created a media firestorm, Lenore got the nickname "America's Worst Mom." (Google it!) She went on to write Free-Range Kids, the book-turned-movement. Lenore has lectured everywhere, from DreamWorks to Microsoft to Harvard Med School -- and the Bulgarian Happiness Festival! (For real.) You may have seen her on TV on The Today Show, The Daily Show, or her reality show, World's Worst Mom. Now, Lenore is co-founder and president of Let Grow, the nonprofit promoting childhood independence and resilience. She lives in New York City with her husband and beloved computer. Her children are gainfully employed. (Phew!) And, for the record, she used to write for Mad Magazine. Yep -- Mad!!!Check out these links:Let GrowThe Let Grow Experience (a free independence-building curriculum for teachers/schools)The Let Grow Play Club (free implementation guide for schools, YMCAs, churches, synagogues, etc., to create a "free play" program for kids)Got a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

On Episode 29 of The KindlED Podcast, Kaity and Adriane do a deep dive into their favorite books! These reads aren't just for parents and educators—they're for anyone on a quest to grow alongside the children in their lives, fostering empathy and understanding in a world that often forgets the value of emotional health. Tune in and embark on a path of discovery that promises to enrich not only your parenting journey but your entire approach to life and relationships.  🔗 RELEVANT LINKS 🔗📚 Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids - https://www.amazon.com/Peaceful-Parent-Happy-Kids-Connecting/dp/0399160280📚 The Whole-Brain Child - https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697/ref=asc_df_0553386697/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312177564685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15285720984281392276&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9014290&hvtargid=pla-436541850135&psc=1&mcid=b07f1fe234d435e192c66e697ff95ecf&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=60258870697&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312177564685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15285720984281392276&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9014290&hvtargid=pla-436541850135&gclid=CjwKCAiA1-6sBhAoEiwArqlGPhthVIMMsEW-0Ss0ruEPepttqsL6c2AIlor2bPuooSXaEXraoNNc1hoC5bgQAvD_BwE📚 No-Drama Discipline - https://www.amazon.com/No-Drama-Discipline-Whole-Brain-Nurture-Developing/dp/0345548043/ref=asc_df_0345548043/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312129802318&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15464091926721088264&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9014290&hvtargid=pla-436599469861&psc=1&mcid=5ef7f800e6273b7f88dcbd00d7f9da0a&gclid=CjwKCAiA1-6sBhAoEiwArqlGPv0F8Nat5zunnNP-vpB4PWMyYBZFjFamoEu2Uu_7QEFKPzZ2K0PYghoCz2EQAvD_BwE📚 Free to Learn - https://www.amazon.com/Free-Learn-Unleashing-Instinct-Self-Reliant/dp/0465025994📚 Make It Stick - https://www.amazon.com/Make-Stick-Science-Successful-Learning/dp/0674729013/ref=asc_df_0674729013/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312669563714&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17047175710258522583&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9014290&hvtargid=pla-434742935023&psc=1&mcid=9c3bd19e20c033888fc05f822df9951b&gclid=CjwKCAiA1-6sBhAoEiwArqlGPkvumXdA3q0xVvcKmzphCjvVfRznJDDmYY5w0imZFtSFooLds1Y7NBoCNAYQAvD_BwE📚 Permission to Feel - https://www.amazon.com/Permission-Feel-Unlocking-Emotions-Ourselves/dp/1250212847Got a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool

On Episode 28 of The KindlED Podcast, Kaity and Adriane chat with Kelly Smith, CEO and founder of Prenda and author of "A Fire to be Kindled."  This episode dives into what it means to empower learners and Prenda's origin story. We journey through Kelly's formative experiences, how he fell in love with learning and wanted the same for his kids, and when he started to think about education, about microschools, and what if—what if we did things differently?This episode also explores:🔥 self-directed learning and the profound difference it can make in one's life🔥 the thriving landscape of microschools🔥 Prenda's learning model🔥 personal goals versus institutional agendas🔥 and so much more!As we touch on the growth and challenges faced in starting and running these microschools, we invite listeners to imagine a future where education is not just a system but a personalized journey deeply woven into the fabric of our communities. Tune in as we unravel the stories of those boldly rethinking and reshaping the way we guide the next generation.ABOUT THE GUEST:Kelly Smith has been obsessed with learning and building things since childhood. After a master’s degree in nuclear fusion (MIT), Kelly had a career in engineering and marketing at various technology companies and sold a small software business in the clean energy space. He started volunteering with an afterschool code club at the local public library, helping kids learn computer programming, and he was so excited about the power of self-learning that he started a microschool around his kitchen table in January 2018. He is the founder and CEO of Prenda (prenda.com), an education company that helps people run their own microschools. Kelly lives in Mesa, Arizona, with his wife and four children.Got a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcastThe KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda Microschools, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Connect with us on social • Get our free literacy curriculum Interested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today. More info at ➡️ Prenda.com or if you're ready to get going ➡️ Start My Microschool