
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

Apr 24, 2021 • 23min
107: Can you mess it up with the right person?
Explore the idea of whether it's possible to mess it up with the right person and the feelings of regret that come with past failures in love. Delve into the illusion of guaranteed outcomes and the power of agency influenced by past experiences. Reflect on the concept of free will and self-forgiveness, and learn about the importance of making and learning from mistakes.

Apr 21, 2021 • 23min
106: Should He Come Over On The First Date(s)?
The podcast discusses the importance of pacing intimacy, inside vs. outdoor dates, determining intentions, and meaningful connections. They emphasize organic progression, caution against moving too quickly, and highlight the significance of understanding values and compatibility. The hosts also express gratitude for listeners and promote a virtual retreat.

Apr 19, 2021 • 6min
105: Avoiding a Difficult Conversation Because You’re Afraid of Their Answer?
Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. “What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. P.S. Early bird tickets for the second and final Virtual Retreat of the year (September 24-26) are only available until the end of the month. These tickets are at a deep discount and have some really special extras thrown in. Don’t miss your chance → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

Apr 14, 2021 • 18min
104: "He STILL Doesn't Want Kids After 8 Years. What Should I Do?"
What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids? In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com!

Apr 9, 2021 • 25min
103: "What If We Have Different Love Languages?" (+ how to talk about being dumped)
Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) -- Today Matt and Steve sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language? Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com!

Apr 6, 2021 • 18min
102: 7 Mindsets to Overcome the Fear That Holds You Back
Learn More About the Life-Changing Virtual Retreat + Lock in Your Early Bird Discount Now (Ends April 30) . . . → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life? Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to? Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities? Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen? It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back. It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready. But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be. And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone. This episode will save you from that fate . . .

Apr 3, 2021 • 18min
101: If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?
"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is. What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs." --- Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Apr 1, 2021 • 29min
100: What If You Feel Bad For A Toxic Partner? (Advice for Empaths)
Empathy is a powerful emotion. It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering. But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being. Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Mar 29, 2021 • 24min
99: Women's Safety - It Belongs To All Of Us
I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives. It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with. I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go. Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear. I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us. And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us. We have your back here, and we love you. Matthew x

Mar 26, 2021 • 7min
98: Have You Dated These 2 Toxic People?
Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com --- There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present. And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories... The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever. And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend. As always, I’m in your corner.