Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes
Mar 17, 2022 • 1h 15min
157: How To Keep Desire With Someone You're Dating
Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com
Mar 12, 2022 • 25min
156: Should You Settle In Love?
In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship? But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship? In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
Mar 4, 2022 • 58min
155: THIS Mindset Keeps You Single (+ Matt's thoughts on being engaged)
Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love How true commitment changes your view of relationships The things that really matter when choosing a partner The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com
Feb 24, 2022 • 16min
154: 7 Ways to Quit Dating Apps and Have Guys Approach You FOR REAL!
Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy? Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE? Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work)... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com
Feb 17, 2022 • 15min
153: 11 Signs He's Serious About You
So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you? Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door... --- Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd! - a 2-hour deep dive for our Love.Life members on what really takes you from casual to committed - book your spot at AskMH.com (and get a free trial to our VIP club!)
Feb 11, 2022 • 20min
152: What Gets Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating
Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com
Feb 3, 2022 • 10min
151: Flirting For Introverts: 3 Authentic Ways To Get Him Interested
You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party. You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. T hen at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting. And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert. If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever. You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I. Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower... -- Come be a part of our FREE "Dating With Results" virtual event on February 8th. Learn 4 secrets to end casual dating traps, and the authentic path to a real, committed relationship. Go to DatingWithResults.com and register today! --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
Jan 26, 2022 • 59min
150: Don't Fight For His Attention, Do These 5 Things Instead...
What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone* Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
Jan 18, 2022 • 39min
149: 4 Questions To Ask Yourself BEFORE You Decide He’s “The One”
Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts. There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
Jan 13, 2022 • 51min
148: The Truth About Modern Men And Casual Sex
It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk: - How men and women think about casual sex in 2022 - What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive) - How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
