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Eat the Rules with Summer Innanen

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Nov 29, 2022 • 38min

#248: Worried About Holiday “Overeating” & Weight Gain? (revisited)

I’m revisiting a classic episode where I talk about how to manage holiday “overeating” and concerns about your weight. I give you specific ways to manage “overeating,” guilt around eating certain foods, holiday weight gain, and general feelings of stress. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/248 In this episode, I talk about: - The diet cycle and how mental and physical restriction lead to our concerns about “overeating,” - Why I hate the term “overeating” because it’s the language of diet culture, - How to give yourself FULL permission to eat so that guilt doesn’t get invited to the table, - What to do if you feel you eat without “savouring,” - How to work through stress about holiday weight gain, - How to handle feelings of holiday stress and feeling overwhelmed with social events, - What to do if you’re worried about photos, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/248   Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Nov 22, 2022 • 39min

#247: How to Respond to Diet and Body Talk (+ scripts) with Amy Green Smith

I’m joined by Amy Green Smith, certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. We are talking all about how to speak up, set boundaries, and deal with diet and body talk from your friends, family, and other people in your life. She’s giving us scripts to use, and how to work through the fight or flight response when someone says something that you don’t know how to respond to. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/247 In this episode, we talk about: - Some overall things to keep in mind when considering setting a boundary or speaking up, - That you will have to rehearse and practice boundary setting, - How just because someone asks you a question, that does not mean you have to answer, - That people will not make change unless they feel understood, - What message you send to your own mind when you sweep things under the rug, - Advice for being around family with a history of commenting on your body, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/247 Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Nov 8, 2022 • 37min

#246 Part 2: Clients Share Their Journeys (You, On Fire Spotlight Series)

In this special 2-part episode I’m speaking to two incredible women who I've had the pleasure of working with in You, On Fire.   In this episode, we meet April... April says she started hating her body when she was 8 years old when traumatizing events led her to have a “punishing relationship with her body.” She had been in therapy for years, but had never addressed her relationship with food and exercise. She was in a “constant battle with her body” and was afraid of what would happen if she stopped her restrictive ways. She felt like her body was wearing out from all the over-exercising she was doing and knew she couldn’t continue. One day, she had a realization when she was talking to a friend and said, “if I just liked myself, all of this could stop.” Since doing YOF, she’s learned to trust herself and her body. She says she’s been “feeling really neutral in her body and that’s amazing.” She also says she has “a neutral relationship with movement now.” She doesn’t freak out if she misses days of movement and she chooses movement that feels good for her body. One particular highlight was when she wore a bathing suit (for the first time since her body changed) on a family boating trip and she wasn’t concerned with how she looked, rather she was in the moment. Standing in front of the mirror, she’s had moments where she thinks, “this is me and I might even think she’s beautiful.” Lastly, she says, “Most of the time I’m not thinking about it, which is a relief. There are moments where I even feel good and accepting. There are hard days too, but I have mantras that will get me through and I know they will pass. I’m in a much more comfortable place than I was a year ago.”   You, On Fire is the online group coaching program that gives you a step-by-step way of building up self-worth beyond your jean size with personalized coaching from me and lifetime access to the program—so you can break out of the diet culture cage, get free from body shame and live your fiery, free, untamed life. Go here to get all the details and get on the waitlist for the upcoming cycle: summerinnanen.com/youonfirewaitlist Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/246   Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Nov 1, 2022 • 31min

#246 Part 1: Clients Share Their Journeys (You, On Fire Spotlight Series)

In this special 2-part episode I’m speaking to two incredible women who I've had the pleasure of working with in You, On Fire.    In this episode, we meet Starlett... After Starlett had her daughter, she gained a lot of weight and was having trouble accepting the changes. It was a new body and she says it felt like, “she was dropped into a foreign country where she didn’t know how to speak the language.”  She says she was constantly told she needed to look a certain way and felt like if she accepted this body, she would be rejected by society and opening herself up to ridicule.  I feel like so many of us can all relate to this.  She asked herself, “do I want to stay on this cycle or do I want a real change?”  Since working together, Starlett came to the realization that she is worthy and valuable just as she is - without any external validation. She also respects that this is a journey and is still using the tools to be more compassionate and accepting of her whole self. One breakthrough moment she had was when she looked in the mirror and she says, “I looked at myself and said I’m worthy and valuable just as I am. The best part is that I believed it. I can feel the change inside of me and I genuinely believe it…It feels amazing” She says, “I’m worthy of the same grace I give my daughter. Yes, my body has changed but my worth and value haven’t. I just needed to see that. Now, I can see me for me without all these other things that used to define me.”   You, On Fire is the online group coaching program that gives you a step-by-step way of building up self-worth beyond your jean size with personalized coaching from me and lifetime access to the program—so you can break out of the diet culture cage, get free from body shame and live your fiery, free, untamed life. Go here to get all the details and get on the waitlist for the upcoming cycle: summerinnanen.com/youonfirewaitlist Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/246   Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Oct 25, 2022 • 38min

#245: Body Positivity vs Fat Liberation with Ingrid Pipes

I’m joined by Ingrid R. Pipes, National Certified Counselor, who is fat, queer, gender non-conforming, and neuro-divergent. We talk about how being neuro-divergent informed Ingrid’s relationship with her body, the difference between body positivity and fat liberation (and why we need more fat liberation), and why “trauma healing” as a form of weight loss is fake news. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/245 If you leave a review during the month of October 2022, then I’ll send you a free audio and e-book copy of my best-selling book Body Image Remix. Email or DM me telling me that you left a review and I’ll send you the link. In this episode, I talk about: - Ingrid’s relationship with her body growing up, - How being neuro-divergent helped protect them as a child, - That body positivity has become digestible and dominated by straight-size people, - That fat liberation is an intersectional movement that supports dismantling social stigma, - That influencers who promote trauma healing as a form of weight loss are preying on people’s insecurities, - Why weight loss is not a therapy goal, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/245 Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Oct 11, 2022 • 49min

#244: Reclaiming Body Trust with Hilary Kinavey & Dana Sturtevant

I’m joined by Hilary Kinavey and Dana Sturtevant, authors of Reclaiming Body Trust and founders of the Center for Body Trust. We talk about how to overcome the challenges around trusting your body and how to navigate body grief that may arise as you step away from dieting. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/244 If you leave a review during the month of October 2022, then I’ll send you a free audio and e-book copy of my best-selling book Body Image Remix. Email or DM me telling me that you left a review and I’ll send you the link. In this episode, I talk about: - The importance of trusting your discernment and how it’s a place of experimentation, - Why people feel like they’re flailing while doing body trust work and their response to people who think they’re doing it wrong, - That body trust is a birthright and it was taken from you, but you can get it back, - Advice for navigating the loss of privilege associated with living in a fat body, - How grief gives permission to acknowledge that something is hard, - Why they prefer the phrase “attuned self-care,” and what it means, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/244   Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap
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Oct 4, 2022 • 21min

#243: Mirror-Checking & Mirror Avoidance (Body Image Series)

I’m talking about overcoming mirror-checking and mirror avoidance. I also talk about why mirror-checking is often a hidden substitute for the scale, whether you should take a break from mirrors, and when it’s appropriate to use mirrors to heal body image, as part of the Body Image Series. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/243   Thanks to our sponsor Magic Mind. To get 20% off, go to magicmind.co/rules and enter the code RULES20 at checkout. The best part is that they have a money back guarantee. If you get the subscription, it’s a 40% off. My 40% off code only lasts 10 days, so hurry up. If you leave a review during the month of October 2022, then I’ll send you a free audio and e-book copy of my best-selling book Body Image Remix. Email or DM me telling me that you left a review and I’ll send you the link.   In this episode, I talk about: - How mirror-checking is a hidden form of checking body size, - That it is often done unconsciously, without understanding its impact, - Four questions to ask yourself to assess if mirror-checking is problematic for you, - Why completely avoiding mirrors can also be problematic, - That we want to drop the expectation of loving our bodies and aim for neutrality, - How we’ve been conditioned to value our worth based on how we look, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/243
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Sep 27, 2022 • 32min

#242: Why you should stop weighing yourself (Body Image Series)

I’m talking about why you need to stop weighing yourself or any form of tracking your body size or food/movement. I also talk about five reasons why scales and tracking devices make our body image worse, and why it’s important to ditch them, as part of the Body Image Series. Thanks to our sponsor Magic Mind. To get 20% off, go to magicmind.co/rules and enter the code RULES20 at checkout. The best part is that they have a money back guarantee. If you get the subscription, it’s a 40% off. My 40% off code only lasts 10 days, so hurry up. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/242 In this episode, I talk about: - What my Instagram audience said about their relationship to scales and tracking devices, - How this kind of tracking becomes an addiction, - My story with the scale and tracking devices, - That it is nearly impossible to have a good relationship with food or movement when our weight is involved in those decisions, - Why calorie counting is useless information, - Six reasons it’s important to ditch scales and tracking devices, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/242
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Sep 20, 2022 • 32min

#241: Do you have Superwoman Syndrome? (Body Image Series)

I’m taking a deep dive into Superwoman syndrome - if you struggle with trying to do it all and be it all, then you won’t want to miss this. I talk about what it is, 6 ways to identify whether you have it, how this impacts your body image, and 10 ways to break free, as part of the Body Image Series.   Thanks to our sponsor Magic Mind. To get 20% off, go to magicmind.co/rules and enter the code RULES20 at checkout. The best part is that they have a money back guarantee. If you get the subscription, it’s a 40% off. My 40% off code only lasts 10 days, so hurry up. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/241 In this episode, I talk about: - That attempting to do too much is putting others’ needs ahead of our own, - Why this is not an individual defect, it’s rooted in our culture and is a social justice issue, - That most often our purpose and values are not aligned with the expectations we are putting on ourselves, - How having the perfect body and/or loving your body is a big part of Superwoman syndrome, - That when we’re burnt out, we’re going to be much more critical on our bodies, - Your free worksheet – 10 ways to reject Superwoman syndrome, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/241
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Sep 13, 2022 • 18min

#240: Season 8 begins - personal update + fav episodes

This is the season 8 premiere of Eat the Rules, and I’m talking about how I feel after my hysterectomy and how my recovery from surgery + a social media break reminded me of what it was like when I first quit dieting. I also talk about the challenges of being on social media these days and give you a rundown of my fav episodes of this podcast to go back to listen to. Show notes: summerinnanen.com/240 In this episode, I talk about: - An update of how my hysterectomy for adenomyosis went and what helped me heal, - How you don’t realize how hard something is on your body until it’s gone, - The parallels between my recovery and recovering from dieting, - How incredible it felt to take a social media break and the challenges of being a creator on social media these days, - What to expect from this season of the show, - My most popular episodes that you can check-out if you’re newer to this podcast, - Plus so much more! Get the shownotes:  summerinnanen.com/240

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