

Couples Counseling For Parents
Dr. Stephen Mitchell and Erin Mitchell, MACP
A show about couple relationships: how they work, why they don’t, and what you can do to fix what’s broken.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Aug 2, 2024 • 29min
My partner keeps telling me I need to talk about my emotions, why does it matter?
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Does talking about emotions matter? We see so many couples were one partner's primary complaint is that their partner cannot talk about how they feel. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP discuss whether talking about emotions matters and what couples can do to resolve this conflict.

Jul 5, 2024 • 43min
My Partner is So Needy!
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Is the preoccupied attachment style really just needy? We examine how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, focusing on preoccupied attachment. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP discuss what preoccupied attachment is, how it impacts a couple relationship, and how partner's can stay connected if one of them is preoccupied.

Jun 28, 2024 • 45min
My Partner Has No Emotions!
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.Ever wondered if an avoidant partner can truly connect emotionally? We examine how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, focusing on avoidant attachment. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP discuss what avoidant attachment is, how it impacts a couple relationship, and how partner's can stay connected if one of them is avoidantly attached.

May 24, 2024 • 37min
Do You Love Me, Do You Want Me, Do You Accept Me?-Three Important Questions Parenting Partners Ask Each Other Every Day
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.There are three questions that parenting partners are asking one another every day. They might not be asking them directly but in their conflict, in their frustration, in their stress these are the questions that underline all of these interactions. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP tell you what the questions are and how you can your partner can answer them in the affirmative for one another.

May 10, 2024 • 38min
It's something every couple with kids feels but doesn't talk about: Loneliness.
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.It's something most parenting partners feel but no one really talks about: Loneliness. That's right. Many parenting partners find themselves feeling lonely during the parenting years and it can be hard to talk about with your partner. This feeling of loneliness can also be an underlying factor for some of the stress, conflict, and hurt feelings parenting partners feel and have regarding one another. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP talk about their own experience of Loneliness as parenting partners and what you and your partner can do to address this silent issue.

Apr 26, 2024 • 37min
The Art of Partner Support in Pregnancy, Postpartum, and Beyond!
Dr. Stephen Mitchell and Erin Mitchell discuss the impact of pregnancy and postpartum on relationships. They highlight the importance of partner support and validation during this challenging yet rewarding period. The podcast explores societal expectations, gender inequalities, and the complex emotions faced by parents.

Apr 19, 2024 • 39min
I'm The Default Parent!-A Conversation Every Couple Needs To Have
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.No one likes having the default parent conversation because it typically ends up in both partners getting frustrated and going to their separate corners. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell MACP help you understand how to have the conversation differently and in a way that will actually change your couple relationship for the better.

7 snips
Apr 5, 2024 • 37min
"We Just Don't Feel Connected Anymore"-How Couples Can Get Reconnected in the Midst of Parenting
Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP discuss how daily parenting moments can lead to disconnection in relationships. They highlight the importance of small gestures, clear communication, and intentional couple time to maintain connection amidst parenting challenges. Strategies for navigating sensitivity, work stress, and enhancing relationship connection are also explored.

Mar 22, 2024 • 51min
What is the 80/80 Marriage?: An Interview with Kaley Klemp and Nate Klemp, PhD
Explore the shift from the 50/50 partnership model to the concept of contributing 80% in a relationship. Discover how radical generosity can transform relationships and foster deeper connection. Learn about the challenges of unequal contribution and the importance of mutual understanding in a partnership.

Mar 8, 2024 • 26min
Thriving Together While Tackling Career and Family Demands
Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.We hear it all the time, "My partner cares more about their job than our family." Or "My partner's job gets the best parts of them and we get what's left over at home." Work is something that happens everyday and is big source of conflict and hurt in parenting partner relationships. Stephen Mitchell, PhD and Erin Mitchell, MACP offer a two step process for how couples can discuss work, family life, and staying connected as partners through it all.