Sex Stories

Hard-ons and hate-ons, creative sex energy, and post-ovulation pleasure—Dyana Valentine shares how she’s redefining arousal, embracing curiosity, and treating sex as a source of joy and power.📈 STATS | 49 heterosexual cis female, she/her pronouns, single, college professor and esoteric artist based in Los Angeles, into: acts of service, intellectual intimacy, sensual conversation, creative expression, domestic generosity, spiritual connection, embodied power, and exploring edges of pain and pleasure.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Redefining sex as joy, satisfaction, and personal power02:08 Early sensations, self-pleasure, and feeling at home in her body04:58 Owning desire out loud and celebrating vibrators without shame08:29 First sex with the neighbor boy and the unforgettable family meeting11:32 Acts of service, intellectual turn-ons, and sensual conversations15:14 Consent as connection, edges of power and pain, and chore sex18:05 Flirting with a casual sex renaissance and embracing curiosity20:41 Pleasure, oppression, and the stigma of being a sexual professor22:34 Wondering what sex will be like after ovulation ends24:49 Practicing availability through art, awareness, and everyday arousal26:54 The myth of mutuality, emotional economics, and relational imbalance30:33 Isolation, safety, and nine years without partnered sex32:41 Boundaries, grief, and rediscovering self-trust37:39 Advice for younger self—teach, share, and try everything40:22 What she’d do differently and how disconnect led to kinky exploration🤩 TOPICS | Acts of service turn-ons, adolescent sexual curiosity, age and sexual rebirth, agency in desire, arousal beyond penetration, artistic self-expression, asking for what you want, autonomy in pleasure, bad kissing, body confidence, breaking sexual silence, calling out rape culture, casual sex renaissance, clitoral awareness, communication during sex, consent as connection, creative erotic energy, defining sex beyond intercourse, desire after menopause, doing dishes as foreplay, domestic intimacy, emotional boundaries, emotional economics, empowered femininity, family conversations about sex, female pleasure, finding your voice, first-time sex stories, freedom after breakup, grown-woman sexuality, guilt and shame release, healing through self-pleasure, heteronormative expectations, Hitachi Magic Wand, intellectual intimacy, intimacy and grief, late-life sexuality, letting go of inhibition, life transitions, listening as intimacy, masturbation and self-connection, mature desire, mindful arousal, mutual respect, myth of mutuality, no-penetration pleasure, nontraditional sex education, open relationships, orgasmic joy, owning your arousal, parent-child sex talks, personal sovereignty, pleasure as power, pleasure without penetration, redefining attraction, relationship boundaries, releasing shame, self-discovery, self-pleasure rituals, sensual confidence, service and seduction, sex education workshops, sexual agency, sexual communication, sexual curiosity, sexual healing, sexual independence, sexual self-awareness, sharing sexual stories, solo pleasure, source energy of sex, speaking desire out loud, spirituality and sensuality, starting over, taboo-breaking conversations, teaching sex ed, teenage sex exploration, unlearning sexual shame, vulnerability in pleasure, washing dishes foreplay, women’s empowerment, women’s pleasure, world sexuality perspectives.🔗 DYANA LINKS | dyanavalentine.com🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connectSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Childhood trauma, power play, and cocksucker pride—Jemal opens up about his sexual awakening, voyeurism, and learning to reclaim power through pleasure and presence.📈 STATS | 31 gay cis male, he/him pronouns, exploring Dom/sub dynamics and psychological sex, formerly religious, artist, based in Southern California, into: voyeurism, power exchange, whispering, foreplay, deep-throating, watching partners, surrender, emotional intimacy, and genuine connection.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Growing up in a strict Christian household and early ideas about sex07:04 Praying away erections, discovering attraction to boys, and first crushes10:24 Managing desire, resilience, and emotional compartmentalization13:05 Early trauma, loss of bodily autonomy, and how it shaped adult sexuality20:00 Submission, domination, and finding safety in surrender22:02 Childhood whispers, erotic electricity, and discovering the power of foreplay24:52 BDSM, trust, and the intimacy of rules and safe words25:59 Embracing voyeurism and curiosity about human behavior28:25 Palm Springs, gay resorts, and the thrill of cruising31:55 The Maze: slings, glory holes, and cocksucker pride33:45 Deep-throating lessons, power dynamics, and transcendent sex41:22 Voyeurism, threesomes, and exploring pleasure through watching44:00 Subspace, hypnosis, and merging psychology with sensation50:09 Clear frames, communication, and craving touch that lasts for hours52:20 Power dynamics, dominance, and how gay men redefine submission57:10 Being seen, resilience, and the power of genuine connection1:04:12 Honesty, sailor mouths, and unfiltered attraction1:05:14 Sexual hopes, sporty fantasies, and advice to his younger self1:06:20 Porn production pet peeves, personal connection, and visual arousal1:08:13 Rope play, voyeurism, and curiosity for more kinky exploration1:09:05 Tumblr porn nostalgia, sex education, and learning through pleasure🤩 TOPICS | Abuse recovery, arousal psychology, ball play, BDSM dynamics, Bible teachings on sexuality, bisexual curiosity, blowjob preferences, body autonomy, childhood sexual experiences, church shame, clear communication, coming of age, control and surrender, deep throat techniques, dominance and submission, emotional connection, erotic hypnosis, erotic storytelling, faith and sexuality, fantasy exploration, gay culture, gay men’s resorts, glory hole adventures, healing from trauma, intimacy through vulnerability, kink curiosity, late virginity, leather slings, longing for touch, masturbation guilt, men’s mental health, Palm Springs cruising, physical touch hunger, play party experiences, power exchange, praying away desire, queer resilience, reclaiming pleasure, religious repression, resilience in relationships, safe words, same-sex attraction, self-discovery through sex, sensual whispering, sexual boundaries, sexual confidence, sexual consent, sexual curiosity, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual inhibition, sexual trauma, sexually open conversation, spanking and impact play, submission psychology, subspace experience, taboo exploration, trauma-informed pleasure, trust in partners, voyeur fantasies, voyeur kink, watching partners have sex.🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connectSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Orgasms, secret kinks, and milk-mouthed first kisses—Raven opens up about discovering pleasure, mastering blowjobs, and learning what truly turns her on.📈 STATS | 20s heterosexual cis female, she/her pronouns, single, based in Southern California, into: art, science, blowjobs, communication, kink exploration, masturbation, nipple play, oral sex, orgasms, self-pleasure, submission, toys, and vulnerability.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Slumber party sex ed, awkward first kisses, and discovering pleasure later in life06:13 Never having an orgasm during sex until 28, realizing it wasn’t her fault, and celebrating self-discovery10:27 Pressure to perform, faking orgasms, and learning to communicate honestly in bed16:07 Online dating, exploring dom/sub roles, and admitting she might not be into BDSM after all18:52 Secret kinks, first orgasm from YouTube, and learning self-acceptance through taboo desire23:03 First kink partner, perfect penis size, and what really gets her off27:02 Clitoral and nipple sensitivity, favorite toys, and stress-relief masturbation rituals32:35 Blowjob mastery, deep-throat curiosity, and her signature ball-sucking technique37:00 Sex noises, biting head-pushers, and establishing clear boundaries41:14 Cunnilingus confessions, pussy-eating lessons, and the infamous “how to eat pussy” video44:40 Condom talk, safer sex wisdom, and advice to her younger self🤩 TOPICS | 69 discovery, accepting fetishes, accidental orgasms, anxiety and arousal, awkward sex education, ball play, BDSM curiosity, best sex toys, biting during oral sex, body awareness, body image and pleasure, blow job confidence, clitoral sensitivity, communication in bed, condom excuses, cunnilingus tips, dating apps and dominance, deep throat curiosity, discovering desire, erotic experimentation, female arousal, female masturbation habits, fingering techniques, first time watching porn, frustrating sex partners, good partner communication, hand and mouth coordination, intimacy pressure, kink acceptance, kink community, learning to say no, late-bloomer sexuality, male moaning, masturbation rituals, morning orgasms, mutual respect in sex, nipple play, oral pleasure skills, partner attention, penis size preferences, porn curiosity, power exchange, pressure to orgasm, real sexual connection, self-exploration, self-pleasure stress relief, sensitive nipples, sex advice, sex communication skills, sex dreams, sex noises, sexual confidence, sexual frustration, sexual pleasure journey, sexual pressure, sexual repression, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-acceptance, sexual self-discovery, sex toy favorites, solo pleasure, stress relief masturbation, tongue strength, turning partners on, unlearning sexual shame, using protection, vaginal stimulation, women’s pleasure, women’s sexual empowerment.🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connectSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery15:20 Understanding rejection and communication18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together 🔗 PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED | Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.comLisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.comEsther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.comBrené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.comAndrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.comEmily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.comAmelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.comOphelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaanTyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com📚 BOOKS | Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-HardtAtlas of the Heart by Brené BrownHot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey CoxCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiCome Together by Emily NagoskiBurnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connect 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.