Sex Stories

Exploring impact play, swinger parties, and the power of dominant caregiving—Windham shares how shame gave way to full-spectrum connection.📈 STATS | 53 straight white cis man, divorced, partnered, kinky dom/daddy, former journalist, current higher ed professional, lives in Boston, into: chains, padlocks, saliva, pee, group sex, impact play, spanking benches, restraint furniture, homemade porn, and emotional vulnerability.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Shame-o-meter check: from 8 to 2, and what great sex looks like with his current long-distance partner04:00 Growing up without physical affection, childhood curiosity, and discovering “My Secret Garden” at age 908:00 Losing virginity to an older coworker at 17 and how early dynamics shaped his respect and awareness in relationships11:00 A 14-year marriage with no sexual growth, the rise of the internet, and the start of kink exploration13:00 Finding community online, discovering BDSM and impact play, and the appeal of psychological over physical domination17:20 Online dating as a safe space to reveal kink interests—strategies, subtlety, and how he filtered for D/s compatibility21:41 Saying “everything” too early, rejection from partners, and learning to filter without giving up authenticity24:00 Breath play gone wrong, pacing disclosure, and the power of being invited vs. overbearing26:00 First swinger party with an extroverted partner: how she got naked first and made friends before play29:00 How she made him feel safe at parties, female-led swinger spaces, and his first real partner in kink32:00 Going to a dungeon for the first time: what he saw, how he felt, and why he just watched from a corner35:00 Swingers vs. dungeon folks—two different worlds with minimal overlap, and why both judge each other38:00 Dom/daddy/sadist pie chart: caregiving, power, pain, and balancing dynamics in long-term play41:00 Locking leather restraints, using real police handcuffs, restraint benches, and the joy of padlocks43:00 Chain flogging, heavy metal kink, and why real weight and sound matter in sensory play45:00 Wax and saran wrap bondage, learning from mistakes, and the physical intensity of full immobilization48:00 Sensory deprivation: claustrophobia, hood fantasies, and their mutual “thought experiments”50:00 Pee play and saliva as turn-ons, outdoor and morning sex desires, and making space for mess54:00 Plans for making homemade porn, exhibitionist energy, and his partner’s eagerness to film56:00 Craving enthusiastic acceptance, not filtered tolerance—and finally finding it after decades58:00 Handjob and blowjob preferences, tongue everywhere, and redefining pegging in a dominant role61:00 Swinger pool party with five couples, how his partner surprised him, and feeling protective throughout65:00 Needing connection more than romance: why he can’t play without mutual emotional access68:00 Group sex as “crack cocaine for the brain,” hopes for four-person connection, and swinger resorts70:00 Getting aroused while comforting his crying partner—and the emotional conflict of being a sadist73:00 Wanting to grow his sadist side, why spanking leaves him conflicted, and how shared pain brings connection76:00 Reflecting on youth, sexual evolution, and being grateful for every step that led to this point🤩 TOPICS | Adult development, bodily reaction to submission, blowjob hesitation, caregiving in relationships, chain restraints, cock worship, communication styles in dating, creating trust through consent, cry-induced arousal, daddy kink dynamics, dating post-divorce, dom-led gangbang prep, dominant energy orchestration, dominant personality traits, dominant topping from below, emotional communication, energetic compatibility, erotic humiliation, erotic punishment rituals, intellectual attraction, introvert in sex-positive spaces, kink-friendly dating tips, kinky extrovert behavior, late-blooming confidence, long-distance intimacy, nipple marks, padlock fetish, partner-led exhibitionism, pegging protocol, personal growth after divorce, relationship introspection, rethinking monogamy, restraint furniture use, rough affection, rough body worship, sadomasochist tension, saran wrap mummification, self-discovery through sexuality, sensory restriction, sex education gaps, slippery hand technique, steel bondage gear, sensual awakening, sensual curiosity, throat play, threesome direction, tongue fetish, voyeuristic hosting, and wax kink.🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: sexual assault // partners AND a stranger. “I wanna be spoiled, I wanna be fucked, I wanna be cared for” …but GG (30 cis F Queer Queen Art XXXhibitionist Double Scorpio Witch & co-host of the Basic Witches Podcast, Actor Writer Comedian Sensual Artist, a Sexual Assault Survivor) *also* gets wet if a cock or pussy is in her mouth and she’s giving. These days, her partners all love going down on her — but it’s been a journey from leaving behind life-size wall paintings of Jesus in a hyper-Catholic home (where abstinence was the only way), having an ideal virginity loss experience (followed by a backlash of shame and a Plan B), to going off to New York at age 15, finally having an orgasm with a partner, getting into an eight year relationship til she was 26, to exploring open relationships, the freedom of single-hood, she shares her journey of combating what she calls the *Holy Trinity of Hatred* with self-love. Today, she’s a fountain of love, creative beauty, and pussy wisdom, and has discovered the beauty of not-trying, while also fully stepping into both her giving and receiving energy. She tells us amazing details of her physical body feelings, how her erotic life is intertwined with her art, tells us about her experience auditioning at a BDSM palace (nipple clamps!), the effect Secret Diary of a Call Girl had on her, and demonstrates so many helpful how-she-does-it moments, including orgasm sounds. GG’s Update from July 2023 | Transactional Fantasy Come True 🔗 GG LINKS | linktr.ee/ggsauvage  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s not the size of Leo’s penis, it’s the way he feels when he uses his entire body to connect deeply with a lover. Controlling when he cums has been a struggle since his first partnered experience, but Leo (45 hetero-flexible cis M, boarding school teacher in Denmark) spent 18 years with his wife with whom he still has a beautiful and daily relationship with, and the last few years have been a new era of exploration for him, and kink has been a way for him to experience powerful sensuality and sexuality without focusing so much on the timing of his orgasm. Tantra led him to a group of sex-positive lover-friends, and he’s discovered how rope feels like an extension of his sexual self (kinbaku and shibari), has played with his Dominant sides, and his explorations have led him to enjoy group sex, including MFM’s, sex club/party scenes, and he was even part of a gangbang crew for a bit. He prefers more intimate partnered connections but is happy in a non-monogamous lifestyle, and also reflects on the difference between talking to students about sex during the yearly sex week at school, and navigating what it means to be a supportive, loving parent and not pushing his own perspectives on his own kids.  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: grooming, assault, self-harm. “Fuck” is a bad word for “making babies” is an early memory of learning about sex, but sex ed in school also taught her about blowjobs. Lia (21 cis F kinky sub/brat lesbian studying psychology) & Wyoh talk childhood horniness, pretending to be a fly caught in a spider web on a rope jungle gym, and how curiosity and exploration led to interacting with an online predator, and how the experience and reaction from family added confusion to understanding her own sexuality. Then we get into physical and kinky details and talk Fifty Shades, boot licking, glass and tentacle dildos, details of her Dom, getting handcuffed to a chair in the back yard, kinky threesomes, a love of canes, and a subtle day collar.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: details of top surgery, mention of non-consensual & boundary-pushing experiences. Charlie (26 he/they w transmasc of center, polyamorous and partnered, a sub-leaning switch, filmmaker in Los Angeles) had to ask for a sex talk, was told masturbation could lead to hurt, and watched the same sex ed pancake video as Wyoh in school. They discovered a bratty side with their first boyfriend in high school, and got their heart broken by their girlfriend from writing camp so that college became about trying to fuck dudes who they weren’t super into, which led to some not-awesome experiences. We talk details of fingering, oral, fucking, how sensitive a clit gets on T, awesome threesomes and less-awesome partners who don’t go down on vulvas, an IUD horror story, the joy of being a shitty brat, the hotness of asking, the need for partners to understand they are not a girl, tenderness and getting thrown around, bruises, the power of the strap-on, rim jobs, squirting (not pee!), ethical porn, and long, hard orgasms.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bratty princess kink, mirror sex, and healing from trauma—Mara shares her curiosity about butt play, her love of playful power dynamics, and the confidence she’s building in communicating her desires.📈 STATS | 26 bisexual cis female from India living in Europe in a 4 year long-term relationship⏰ TIME CODE00:00 From shame-free beginnings to a 1 on the shame-o-meter 14:18 Discovering “auto sexual” and the fantasy of sex with a clone of herself 19:06 Defining sexy, early pleasures, and the panic of stumbling upon porn 22:15 Abstinence-only sex ed in Kentucky and learning consent online 27:42 First kisses, boarding school privacy, and showerhead discoveries 33:08 Masturbation evolution, favorite toys, and repeated orgasms 36:34 Toxic first relationships, reclaiming agency, and better partners over time 45:42 Bisexuality without shame, teenage sexting, and wild-phase experiences 52:27 Therapy, online fanfiction, and finding examples of healthy sex 54:57 Princess brat kink: the sweet spot of praise and playful resistance 59:59 Bluetooth toy play, handcuffs, and edging with blowjobs 1:03:55 Oral sex preferences, princess receiving, and butt-play curiosity 1:10:01 Group sex possibilities, threesomes, and sensory overload 1:22:00 Sex dreams, stress horniness, and waking up ready to play 1:25:11 Impact play, fantasies about slapping, and mirror sex 1:29:33 Video clips, curiosity about trying almost anything, and no-hate consensual sex 1:31:47 Hopes for future sexual communication and growth 1:33:09 Advice to her younger self: tell the truth about what feels good🤩 TOPICS | Abstinence-only sex education, anal play curiosity, ass licking, autosexual identity, BDSM exploration, bisexual experiences, blowjob techniques, body confidence, bondage cuffs, brat kink, breast slapping, butt plug interest, clitoral stimulation, clone sex fantasies, communication about sexual boundaries, consensual power exchange, cunnilingus preferences, dirty talk, double penetration fantasies, erotic mirror play, female masturbation, fingering with oral, first sexual experiences, group sex curiosity, handcuffs with padding, Harry Potter fanfiction erotica, high sex drive, impact play interest, kinky roleplay, kissing memories, long distance relationship sexting, masturbation with showerhead, nipple play, nude photography, online sex research, oral sex on male partner, orgasm control, partner praise during sex, pegging curiosity, pillow princess conversation, porn discovery, power bottom dynamics, princess kink, receiving oral sex, safe sex conversations, same-sex encounters, sexting habits, sex dreams, sexual trauma recovery, spanking fantasies, spit-roasting fantasies, submissive desires, threesome interest, toe sucking fantasy, toy-assisted masturbation, vibrator use, voyeuristic tendencies during sex🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When his first girlfriend cheated on him in high school, Sean (50 he/him straight white M LTR/Cuckoldry, Small Penis Humiliation, Chastity/Works in IT/rural Northwest) started getting turned on and thought something was wrong with him—but he’d get off on it all the time. With internet came knowledge, and he’s happily into cuckoldry, small penis humiliation and chastity, and though he’s new to sharing details about these kinks, his stories and insights are wonderful, and offer an alternative to the commonly accepted idea that “jealousy = love.” His current partner knows that a whisper about fucking another dude — especially if he has a big cock — will trigger an instant explosion (“it’s my heroin”), and he shares how the idea of reclamation is so powerful for him. We get details on his cock cage, he explains his identity as a “stag” (he’s not into sissification or humiliation at the hands of another dude), and we talk penis size, cock comparison, and the changes he’s noticed in his dick over the years. We also talk porn detox, growing up in the 70’s without a mom, fantasizing about a Ken Doll type guy fucking his partner, future anal play explorations, having sex *literally* 15 times a day, keeping kinks from his shrink and more.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What do you do if you grew up queer in a homophobic household with parents who got together via arranged marriage? Literally learn to fall in love with yourself, if you’re Andie (22 cis bi F, teacher, Pakistani Muslim in Canada, big nude sender). In her first partnership now, she has truly enjoyed navigating hookup culture, and her relational ease shines through the many juicy details in her episode, including: learning about scissoring from schoolmates, quiet, secret masturbation, a neck spoon, realizing she’s also into chicks, “studying” at the library and many firsts in the back of her car, her mom’s ideas on how to find a husband, going from being grossed out by making out to super loving sex and touching and spit, how oral sex feels more intimate than penetration, the power of rim jobs, talking about desire ahead of time and the difference between masc and femme partners, a little bit of anal, and she sheds some light on why some people might ghost (even though she doesn’t) with a recent experience.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex is complicated for Alex (29 Jewish bisexual cis m), a bi dude who grew up in an Orthodox Jewish household and had a traumatic experience with a predatory teacher in high school. He talks about coming out, a pressure to “choose” a sexual identity, his experiences with hookup culture and therapy-supported sexual soul-searching to figure out what “healthy” means for him. He shares stories of secret gay army sex, his sexual debut (with his BFF in the next room), spank-induced discoveries, a surprise monster experience, threesomes, lessons learned about using shampoo as lube, pubic lice (crabs), and his love of biting. Alex’s Update from January 2024 | Fluid Fan  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW* // A self-identified sex camel, Jensi (38 white cis single F, a body worker in California) introduces Wyoh to Shell Silverstein’s adult work, and then we proceed to talk about getting ostracized for calling herself “bi” at a young age, what it was like to be a stripper, why she loves strip clubs, and where to find the best thongs, there is intense stuff:  *molestation, rape, abuse and abortion, and stories of healing, sandy vagina fingering, difficulty receiving, angry vagina feels, tripling her income with anal play, deep-throating and firm neck grab loves, wanting to explore kink, and a magical porn fairy godfather who snagged her a perfectly romantic Italian lover.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.