

Sex Stories
Wyoh Lee
How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into?
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/xstoriespod
Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com
Share a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest
These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/xstoriespod
Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com
Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo |
Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com
Share a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest
Episodes
Mentioned books

Sep 20, 2021 • 35min
A Sponge for the Viscerally Sensitive: Frances of Awkward Essentials
Turns out, selling an after-sex cleanup tool is sexy, just not in the way you might think. Awkward Essentials isn’t talking about the pleasure parts, they’re talking about sticky, gooey, often embarrassing parts. Founder Frances Tang never expected to be the face of what’s known on TikTok as The Cum Sponge, but her personal displeasure at post-sex dribbling led her to found this hygiene company that’s doing awesome stuff like normalizing business conversations around anal sex and sparking more open, intimate conversations between lovers. She offers (surprising) insight on pitching to VC’s as a sex-adjacent company, and offers Wyoh advice on developing her PlayShip Mission 🔗 FRANCES LINKS | awkwardessentials.com / instagram
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Sep 17, 2021 • 1h 14min
138 | Hunt, Catch, Wrestle: Sam’s Sex Stories
TW: assault/rape. Drawing kinky queer people having sex in consensual ways set Sam (28 gender fluid mono/poly queer kinky brat) on a path of exploration and education and led them to create Shimpteeth, a place of sexy support. Sam and Wyoh talk Funishment Fridays, a monogamous first, the journey from corporate to learning & teaching about kinky/poly/sexy things, from juggling multiple partners to deepening satisfaction with one, a biting mishap, their brat streak, don’t-ask-don’t-tells, casual dating, more explicit poly dating, figuring out non-monogamy and kink, safer sex barrier faves, the difficulties of strapping, and the ways in which talking sex prefs ahead of time are hot and/or heavy. “I could see myself getting into a nice group of hot butches degrading me” -Sam. 🔗 SAM LINKS | shrimpteeth.com
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Sep 15, 2021 • 47sec
An Experiment of Professional Stories
Sex at Work is a look into the jobs, businesses and brands that help shape attitudes and norms around sex. Guests include sex educators, workers, and researchers, as well as media and industry leaders whose brands are relevant to sex lives everywhere.The goal is to explore ideas around sex and sexiness in different contexts, the ultimate goal is to create a more compassionate world.Wyoh Lee an artist, filmmaker and host of Sex Stories, a podcast where people of all ages from all over the world share their most personal details in an effort to smash shame and inspire each others' creativity so we can all lead better-laid lives.Let's do it.
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Sep 10, 2021 • 1h 17min
137 | Vulnerability Lover: Windham’s Sex Stories
His shame-o-meter used to hover around an 8, these days it’s down to a 2—he used to feel like his desires were allowed, but post-14-year marriage and with the internet acting as an equalizer, he’s been able to welcome and even explore his kinkier side. Windham (53 cis het straight M into foreign accents, intelligence, D/s, former journalist from the Midwest, now lives in Boston area) & Wyoh talk online dating successes and non-success, feeling safe enough to tell a new partner “everything,” BDSM, impact play, heavy metal and chains, psychological domination outweighing the physical, his need for connection with a partner (distinct from a desire for romantic relationship), his current very awesome partner and all their explorations—including a hotel orgy, the intersection between the dungeon and swinger crowds, the difference between his Dom, Daddy, and Sadist modes, immobilization, Saran Wrap, sensory deprivation, thought experiments, kinky duffel surprises, a steel whipping rod, piss play, outdoor sex, mutual vulnerability, tongues everywhere and getting turned on by tears.
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Sep 3, 2021 • 1h 27min
136 | Hyper-Catholic to Sugar Babe: GG Sauvage’s Sex Stories
TW: sexual assault // partners AND a stranger. “I wanna be spoiled, I wanna be fucked, I wanna be cared for” …but GG (30 cis F Queer Queen Art XXXhibitionist Double Scorpio Witch & co-host of the Basic Witches Podcast, Actor Writer Comedian Sensual Artist, a Sexual Assault Survivor) *also* gets wet if a cock or pussy is in her mouth and she’s giving. These days, her partners all love going down on her — but it’s been a journey from leaving behind life-size wall paintings of Jesus in a hyper-Catholic home (where abstinence was the only way), having an ideal virginity loss experience (followed by a backlash of shame and a Plan B), to going off to New York at age 15, finally having an orgasm with a partner, getting into an eight year relationship til she was 26, to exploring open relationships, the freedom of single-hood, she shares her journey of combating what she calls the *Holy Trinity of Hatred* with self-love. Today, she’s a fountain of love, creative beauty, and pussy wisdom, and has discovered the beauty of not-trying, while also fully stepping into both her giving and receiving energy. She tells us amazing details of her physical body feelings, how her erotic life is intertwined with her art, tells us about her experience auditioning at a BDSM palace (nipple clamps!), the effect Secret Diary of a Call Girl had on her, and demonstrates so many helpful how-she-does-it moments, including orgasm sounds. GG’s Update from July 2023 | Transactional Fantasy Come True 🔗 GG LINKS | linktr.ee/ggsauvage
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Aug 27, 2021 • 1h 10min
135 | Tantra, Rope & Intimacy: Leo’s Sex Stories
It’s not the size of Leo’s penis, it’s the way he feels when he uses his entire body to connect deeply with a lover. Controlling when he cums has been a struggle since his first partnered experience, but Leo (45 hetero-flexible cis M, boarding school teacher in Denmark) spent 18 years with his wife with whom he still has a beautiful and daily relationship with, and the last few years have been a new era of exploration for him, and kink has been a way for him to experience powerful sensuality and sexuality without focusing so much on the timing of his orgasm. Tantra led him to a group of sex-positive lover-friends, and he’s discovered how rope feels like an extension of his sexual self (kinbaku and shibari), has played with his Dominant sides, and his explorations have led him to enjoy group sex, including MFM’s, sex club/party scenes, and he was even part of a gangbang crew for a bit. He prefers more intimate partnered connections but is happy in a non-monogamous lifestyle, and also reflects on the difference between talking to students about sex during the yearly sex week at school, and navigating what it means to be a supportive, loving parent and not pushing his own perspectives on his own kids.
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Aug 20, 2021 • 1h 24min
134 | Formative Jungle Gym Experiences: Lia’s Sex Stories
TW: grooming, assault, self-harm. “Fuck” is a bad word for “making babies” is an early memory of learning about sex, but sex ed in school also taught her about blowjobs. Lia (21 cis F kinky sub/brat lesbian studying psychology) & Wyoh talk childhood horniness, pretending to be a fly caught in a spider web on a rope jungle gym, and how curiosity and exploration led to interacting with an online predator, and how the experience and reaction from family added confusion to understanding her own sexuality. Then we get into physical and kinky details and talk Fifty Shades, boot licking, glass and tentacle dildos, details of her Dom, getting handcuffed to a chair in the back yard, kinky threesomes, a love of canes, and a subtle day collar.
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Aug 13, 2021 • 1h 13min
133 | I Like Being Rude: Charlie’s Sex Stories
TW: details of top surgery, mention of non-consensual & boundary-pushing experiences. Charlie (26 he/they w transmasc of center, polyamorous and partnered, a sub-leaning switch, filmmaker in Los Angeles) had to ask for a sex talk, was told masturbation could lead to hurt, and watched the same sex ed pancake video as Wyoh in school. They discovered a bratty side with their first boyfriend in high school, and got their heart broken by their girlfriend from writing camp so that college became about trying to fuck dudes who they weren’t super into, which led to some not-awesome experiences. We talk details of fingering, oral, fucking, how sensitive a clit gets on T, awesome threesomes and less-awesome partners who don’t go down on vulvas, an IUD horror story, the joy of being a shitty brat, the hotness of asking, the need for partners to understand they are not a girl, tenderness and getting thrown around, bruises, the power of the strap-on, rim jobs, squirting (not pee!), ethical porn, and long, hard orgasms.
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Aug 6, 2021 • 1h 26min
132 | Shame-Free Princess Brat: Mara’s Sex Stories
No one ever told Mara (26 bisexual cis F from India living in Europe in a 4 year LTR) to be ashamed by sex or nudity, so she wasn’t. Early sex ed included bitch.com and an enthusiastic teacher in Kentucky when she was 12 who talked about how amazing sex is, and that it should absolutely be avoided. She tells us why she’s currently playing with the label “autosexual” to describe herself, talks about the internet sex research she did that led her to oversell the greatness of her early sexual experiences, to sometimes traumatic results that ultimately led her to seek out a good therapist (hooray!). All the while, she remained a hopeful sex fiend, seeking out examples of hot, consensual, romantic sex. Explorations with her current partner have led her to discover her kinky side, including impact play, choking, and there’s so much more to come & cum.
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Jul 30, 2021 • 1h 7min
131 | Jealousy at its Hottest: Sean’s Sex Stories
When his first girlfriend cheated on him in high school, Sean (50 he/him straight white M LTR/Cuckoldry, Small Penis Humiliation, Chastity/Works in IT/rural Northwest) started getting turned on and thought something was wrong with him—but he’d get off on it all the time. With internet came knowledge, and he’s happily into cuckoldry, small penis humiliation and chastity, and though he’s new to sharing details about these kinks, his stories and insights are wonderful, and offer an alternative to the commonly accepted idea that “jealousy = love.” His current partner knows that a whisper about fucking another dude — especially if he has a big cock — will trigger an instant explosion (“it’s my heroin”), and he shares how the idea of reclamation is so powerful for him. We get details on his cock cage, he explains his identity as a “stag” (he’s not into sissification or humiliation at the hands of another dude), and we talk penis size, cock comparison, and the changes he’s noticed in his dick over the years. We also talk porn detox, growing up in the 70’s without a mom, fantasizing about a Ken Doll type guy fucking his partner, future anal play explorations, having sex *literally* 15 times a day, keeping kinks from his shrink and more.
🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.