Sex Stories

Cat & Joshua (partnered poly couple who have been together five years—she is 59, an educator and minister in training; he is a counselor, consultant, end-of-life Doula, and Professional Dominant—founders of Kink Collective) come on to share how they facilitate deep personal growth, dissolve shame, and help people be their best selves, drawing off their backgrounds in professional Domination to inform their work as counselors. Joshua reflects on discovering his aunt’s nylons as a kid, growing up Latino in NYC (East Harlem) and realizing throughout his military, law enforcement and private protection careers that he was consistently the go-to guy for sex stuff, he talks about what it was like to work with a Catholic Priest, his own connection to God via BDSM, and why it’s important to him to say hi to everyone in play, kink, and club spaces. Cat shares wisdom from her past as a professional Dominatrix and club owner, years of sexual freedom before she realized “reputations” were a thing, becoming sober at 29, falling in love with a woman for the first time, and creating kink spaces where people feel comfortable, she outlines the consent overview she used to start each event with, and shares how she has perfected the ability to notice stress and distress in a person and ask questions that get people to open up and drop in. They discuss punching as a teaching tool, how COVID led to an influx of people ready for a new phase of personal exploration, and how the intensive of their Power Exchange Academy is beautifully designed to facilitate deep transformational work. 🔗 CAT & JOSHUA LINKS |  kinkcollective.net / ssdce.org / masterjoshua.com / instagram  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Wrenly May (38 w f married bi-curious voyeur exhibitionist) shares how she and her husband opened up their marriage; starting with swinging as a couple and moving to Wrenly May exploring independently with a new lady lover. She’s been having fun switching between the dominant and submissive role as she and her play partner duel it out for control. She expresses interest in getting even further into BDSM (bite marks on her nipples please!) and the special kitchen utensil she’s been using for spanking lately. She LOVES keeping things strictly physical outside of her marriage and muses on how she only submits to women. For astrology nerds, Wyoh and Wrenly May go deep on how her Capricorn sun, Cancer moon, Virgo rising show up in her Sex Life. Wrenly May's Sex Stories from May 2021 | Naughty iPad & Windgasm Awakening 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Zach (32 bisexual polyamorous kinkster and author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto) has a great sex life—it’s sex positive and sexy and slutty and bisexual and kinky, there are glory holes, gay clubs, daisy chains and nipple play, he’s hosted bukkakes and gang bangs and cum dumps, he has tons of casual sex (catch him when he’s horny!), deeply intimate sex and novel and hardcore sex, prostate play makes him shoot “like a fucking geyser,” and people tell him things like, “I want you to fuck my gay husband.” If we can get his book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto on The NY Times top 100 we might get him to do some porn-y stuff on onlyfans, but for now he’s busy writing—for Men’s Health and Cosmo and his extremely raunchy Boyslut Zine, and he joins Wyoh to talk about how he went from a 10 to a 1 on the shame-o-meter (for details, read Boyslut), what it’s like to live in a sex-positive world where friend hangs turn into orgies, going from thinking he was going to die a virgin to celebrating his bisexuality and frolicking on Sniffies, how hot owning his desires and creating a space for partners to do the same has been, what it’s like to travel to different sex resorts and write about it for work—which leads to stories like getting beckoned over by a cougar. Zach’s risk tolerance includes a schedule of regular testing and a fair amount of barrier-free fucking, and he reflects on learning about sex via the media coverage of Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, and shares stories of early anxiety, judgement and shame spirals that affected his boners until he learned to say, “hey, I might not get hard.” He talks about first exclusively topping, a bad first experience bottoming that led to anal fissures, how it took a woman to get him to enjoy anal, the five years he spent getting drunk and hooking up with guys until his therapist asked him a pointed question about his “bi confusion.” Zach talks about getting paid to perform live sex acts at clubs, hooking up with and paying sex workers, how he decides what to share with whom and when in terms of his sex-related work, his messy intro to poly and his observations around the generational and locational differences in various non-monogamous communities, and how he went from getting his PhD in clinical psychology and working in smoking cessation to writing from a bi perspective for a bi perspective. He wants everyone to know that they are normal and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. He leaves Wyoh with a tease of what’s next (bisexual RomCom YES PLEASE) and a giant sexy jacuzzi fantasy. Zachary’s Update from July 2024 | Daisy Chain Happy Place 🔗 ZACH LINKS | zacharyzane.com 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Porn is sex stunts with fun toys and gear, and in Electra Rayne’s case, lots of electric, queer creativity—and Electra (26 f bisexual poly and partnered sw in a six year relationship) shares stories that include milking machines, TENS unit butt plugs for electro play, a cattle prod, a VR shoot for kink.com, toy sterilizers, pegging on inflatables and then popping them, and (safely, executed with an internal condom) an up-the-butt ping pong ball party at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas, Nevada*. Discovering kinky rope bondage on boobs.com as a 5th grader changed her life. While she studied to be a forensic scientist, Electra knew she wanted to do porn since she was 12, she just didn’t think it would be her main thing. Raised by progressive loving parents who taught her the emotional and pleasure components of sex but failed to mention anything about penises in vaginas helping sperm get to eggs, her understanding of sex and desire evolved along with her understanding of rope bondage and that wiggly feeling she was learning to like. Electra talks about her lactation fetish, sidesteps some of the fantasies that still embarrass her, and explains how sex is about enjoyment, not orgasm, her experience of primary and secondary orgasms, and the nuance she experiences between feeling sexy and feeling turned on. She and Wyoh talk money kinks, how hot clarity is, distilling our evolving desires and talking about them with partners and clients, and she shares details of some extremely hot psychedelic sexy experiences she’s had with her wife, how she handles attractions to colleagues on set, and why authentic queer sex on camera is so important to her—and how she strives to create a space for that. Electra explains how hip, shoulder and pelvic surgery have complicated her sex life and excitement for her upcoming hysterectomy, why working at a brothel is like an amazing vacation and also the hardest, most intense work ever, finding the balance between variety and routine, what it’s like to have a wildly supportive spouse who is not in the porn world and what it’s been like to open up their relationship, the standard Electra has when it comes to creating a supportive environment for her performers, and how she reconnects to her own sexuality, over and over again. 🔗 ELECTRA LINKS | queercrush.com / www.electrarayne.net  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

How can we be enthusiastic about something we’ve never done before? Mia Schachter (33 white genderfluid trans, poly-ish, single person, intimacy coordinator) shares what it’s like to be low-shame with the superpower of distilling complex topics into clear and audience-appropriate bits of sharable information, which is part of what makes them an excellent consent educator—or rather, consent wizard. But work is in the background in this episode: Wyoh and Mia talk about discovering their affinity for armpits, partners who love petting, how fun sex with friends is, exploring delicious sexual dynamics, sex as an artistic medium, love and sex and trust creating psychic experiences, straightforward invitations for erotic partnered experiences, mental turn-ons, considering a partners’ definition of sex, how hot humping and grinding with clothes on like teenagers can be, giggly and thrilling experiences around partners even when talking about sex is your job, learning to calibrate our own neuro-perceptions while navigating relationships, and the harmful binaries of consent education. Mia reflects on formative experiences, learning about sex and that it could include pleasure, but it seemed gross. They describe themselves as a late bloomer, then share details of bad first experiences, eventually discovering fun, playful sex before deciding to put effort into queer dating. Mia tells a story about hiring a sex worker to salvage a relationship that was flailing due to improper anal etiquette and gives details about why butt stuff is so intimate for them, how they came to teach consent, understanding their trans identity, and why working as an intimacy coordinator on Hollywood sets has been overall disappointing—and what it was like to learn about health and consent and trauma as they were undergoing their own healing for lifelong health stuff. And then there was a tapeworm. And two and a half years of NO sex. And now it’s a new era of dating apps (Hinge and Raya) and self-expression: Mia plays Music as Max Silver, is working an a song about dating profiles that will open their future musical—and they play us a preview!!!! 🔗 MIA LINKS | linktr.ee/consentwizardry / consentwizardry.com / instagram  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

From physical therapist to porn star, Cherie DeVille (44 f, 10 years into an emotionally monogamous and sexually open relationship) discusses details of what it’s like to be the internet’s step-MILF, the orgasmic potential of her belly button and nipples (not what you’d think!) and jillions of excellent and interesting details about her experiences working in the adult film industry. Cherie and Wyoh talk about how sexy vulnerability is, how eye contact, intimacy, communication, and partners who insist on their pleasure is so hot, and how anything that is erotic to someone can be sex. She shares her favorite types of penetration and orgasms, talks about how awesome it is to work for herself, the hot hot sex she’s had, and…all the computer stuff that we don’t necessarily associate with the adult industry. She and Wyoh talk consent on set, why she doesn’t swing any more, the current culture around STIs, what it’s like being open about her work, how delicious it is to be raw and real and express ourselves sexually, and ensuring horniness causes no remorse—especially on set. They also talk about how society squishes us with shame, how great therapy is, how much we just want people to go for what they want without apology, why going through life overhaul is awesome and helpful, why monogamy is for her for now and also how it’s absurd, her sixth sense about and understanding of love, the awesomely hot scenarios porn has allowed her to participate in, why professional dicks are amazing, and the gorgeousness of the vast sexual expression in humans. 🔗 CHERIE LINKS | instagram / twitter / tiktok / OF   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Lilly (30s monogamous white cis het f) went on a journey to learn to orgasm, and her larger pursuit of pleasure eventually led her to produce porn—she’s the founder and CEO of Afterglow*, an ethical porn company whose mission is to empower and educate in the name of delicious connection. Lilly shares her backstory: a conservative upbringing, a high school sweetheart she was with from ages 15 to 30, her first orgasm at 24, and her second wave of sexual exploration after shirking a lot of shoulds which her to be the change she wanted to see in the adult film industry. She shares her favorite parts of sex (hint: she named her company after it), her satisfaction in monogamy and belief that everyone’s at least a little queerious, her own control and collaboration preferences, the liberator sex couch she aspires to use more often, the Lelo vibrator she first loved and still uses to this day, and what it’s like to actually produce porn after a background in the startup world. She and Wyoh talk being single for the first time again in your 30’s, encountering penises of all sizes, wanting to like porn, exploring her own sexuality with erotic video, and wanting to make something hot that speaks to people like her—so she did, even though she had no idea how to produce a film much less a porno when she started. She shares her definition of ethical porn, how Afterglow has shifted her relationship to the industry, how awesome the performers are, the importance of lube, and the guided audio exercise that you do with your partner around cunnilingus on Afterglow—sign up at xoafterglow.com/lover 🔗 LILLY LINKS |  Afterglow / instagram / twitter / linkedin / facebook  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Wyoh’s first-ever girl-crush Lauren (34 queer pansexual, poly cis woman living in Los Angeles, co-producer of Failed Films Fest) comes on-pod to share memories of all the hot ways their lives have intersected over the years—including hot makeouts when they ran into each other in Colombia, a threesome with Wyoh’s first Dom, and erotic films of mutual inspiration—and fills in her own stories of her sexual evolution. Lauren is one of the artists behind Failed Films, an adult art and film festival to celebrate the fullness of self-expression, but her origins are the same conservative farm town Wyoh is from, and they talk about how minimal sex ed and a lack of relational guidance shaped their erotic unfoldings, being a makeout queen with girlfriends and eventually putting a name to queerness, falling in love with everyone in a pansexual sort of way, and how having sex-positive friends leads to things like an orgy in Spain and a first experience receiving strap-on penetration. Lauren shares how she loves to be watched or recorded in spaces where exhibitionism is allowed, loving cunts and boobs in her face, getting to know her submissive self, a possible identity as a power bottom and also a very bad naughty brat, the hot ways she invites her partners to fuck, her love of outdoor sex and fantasies of being ravished in the woods, feelings on her go-to toys: flogger, paddle, glass butt plug, and restraints, a desire for double penetration and femme energy in her sex life, and how the fun, kinky, pervy, lovely, beautiful community of artists she’s experienced and facilitated through Failed Films continues to be an inspiration. 🔗 LAUREN LINKS | Failed Films / twitter / instagram 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

A compilation episode! Lorde Destroyer went to former guest Mistress Justine Cross’ play party on a Saturday, and met Wyoh in the park on Sunday, and he talks about having so much fucking fun—kissing, makeouts, feeling at home in a queer and trans space. A ProDom in his daily life, he will bottom for Mommies, and gives us a mini punching tutorial after talking about getting to make a Mommy really happy by punching her. He talks about his specialty for work briefly—mindfucking—and likens Wyoh to a collie dog when she says she’s felt energetically like a puppy around a lover lately. Then, listener email: one about a vacuum kink with layer of happy endings, then the glorious awesomeness of aquaphilia, and a couple of hellos from listeners. 🔗 LORDE DESTROYER LINKS | instagram / linktr.ee/lordedestroyer  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.

Dr. Amber Hull (44 cis queer F physician in private practice who is a solo-polyamorous free agent) returns to share how she’s revamping sex ed, cultivating honest conversations about healthy human sexuality with clients, and supporting them wherever they are in their journey through her Confidential Consults. She shares stories of teaching fellow doctors and adults the latest in sexual health and safety practices in her Sex Ed Reboot online class, DoxyPEP details, tells us what a joy friend is, normalizing ethical non-monogamy, equipping kids to enforce their boundaries and negotiate what they want, and why you should get vaccinated against HPV. Dr Amber's Sex Stories from August 2023 | Erotic Audacity, Wellness & Luxury 🔗 DR AMBER LINKS | artemisluxurywellness.com / Sex Ed Reboot  🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!SDC: A place for swingers to connectFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sexBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/linksOne-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee  🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.💦 Spread ripples of love.