The Benefits of Systematizing Relationships

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Treating personal life more like a business and business more personally can lead to gains. Systemizing relationships can be helpful, even if it's considered unnatural by some. Creating a personal CRM or list of people to stay in touch with can encourage connections. Having a list of friends in different cities can help plan meetups when traveling. Systemizing relationships is about finding shortcuts and heuristics to make life easier and better. Systemizing health and workouts can lead to better results than relying on spontaneity. Our natural bias is towards sloth, so creating systems helps us overcome that tendency and stay focused.

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Balancing your career, relationships, and health can be a juggling act for a lot of us, no matter what point we’re at in our lives. Today I speak to Sahil Bloom. Sahil is the Founding Partner at $10M fund SRB Ventures, an angel investor in more than 30 companies, and over the past two years has become viral content creator with his Twitter following growing from 0 to nearly 1 million followers. He’s done all this while being a husband and father to his first child. In the conversation, we talk about how to systemise life so that you can shoot for wealth beyond money, tools for health and relationships, his journey as a content creator and life hacks to help you build a life you love.

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(00:00) Intro

(01:38) The life dinner

(15:08) Systems for friendships

(23:00) Dealing with negativity

(33:58) Wealth beyond money

(35:13) ‘Deferred happiness syndrome’

(39:20) The yes damn effect

(46:16) We are blind to our realities

(50:11) What does retirement mean?

(57:15) Financial security vs financial confidence

(01:09:30) Be a guide not a guru

(01:12:04) Mental health & wellbeing

(01:22:30) Reduce friction in your life

(01:33:00) The ideal week

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