Many times, we experience painful things that others, even our loved ones, may not understand. It's important to find a balance between being close to others and taking care of ourselves. Love is not always fun, and it includes a range of emotions such as disappointment, frustration, and conflict. Love and life are vast and encompass all these feelings. Instead of avoiding or running away from them, we should make room for failure and pain. Making friends with failure and pain can lead to personal growth and deeper connections in relationships.