
Kevin Kelly On The Courage It Takes To Live Your Own Life
The Daily Stoic
*Don't aim to be the best, instead be the Only, *
The insight of this snip is that the goal should not be to be the best, but to be the only person doing something or doing it in a unique way. This requires finding and mastering a skill that is not only loved and well-paid, but also different from what others are doing. It is about embracing one's own unique combination of talents and sharing them with the world. This approach benefits society by avoiding replication and benefits the individual by eliminating competitors. However, it is emphasized that aiming for this position is a very high bar that takes a lifetime to achieve, and it requires constant self-reflection and exploration. Additionally, it is mentioned that working on something that does not have an existing name or category increases the likelihood of a breakthrough, as it pushes beyond the boundaries of language and existing norms. While this path may have detours, setbacks, and require courage to stand apart, it ultimately allows individuals to carve out their own niche and fully express their uniqueness.