Reality always wins, whether it is what's unfolding in front of you or what has happened in the past. If something from the past bothers you, you're out of harmony with reality. Everything in the past has ended, and if it still bothers you, it's something you're doing to yourself. Life is not tough; it unfolds by itself with the sun rising, the moon appearing, and your body functioning without your conscious effort. The universe is remarkable, but we create an alternate reality in our minds and try to superimpose it on the true reality, leading to conflicts and struggles among people who have different views of what should be happening.