Predicting Questions and Mentors as Imaginary Conversationalists

When asking mentors for help, it is important to write a good description of the situation and summarize it concisely. The summary should include the context, problem, options, and thoughts. Before sending it to the mentor, try to predict what they would say and address those points in advance. This saves time and shows preparedness. By including the predicted questions and answers in the initial summary, the answer to the problem becomes clear, eliminating the need to bother the mentor further. Finding a mentor is not about external searching, but about internalizing their teachings and thinking from their perspective. By being familiar with their work, it is possible to predict what they would say and solve problems independently.

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Derek Sivers (@sivers) is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship, known for his surprising, quotable insights and pithy, succinct writing style. He is a former musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, who sold his first company, CDBaby, for $22 million and gave all the money to charity.

Derek’s books (How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs. His upcoming book is Useful Not True.

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P.S. To follow the exact step-by-step "Tech Independence" instructions from Derek, please visit sive.rs/ti.

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[06:16] The Derek Sivers School of Enough.

[11:24] Scuba diving and empathy lessons in Iceland.

[16:13] Categories we apply to ourselves and others.

[22:46] Derek’s people compass.

[28:14] How to secure your tech independence.

[1:05:19] The unoptimized life.

[1:16:37] The meaning of Derek’s upcoming book, Useful Not True.

[1:32:55] The problem with moral relativism and other -isms.

[1:51:24] Giant leaps.

[2:00:10] Finding and asking mentors for help.

[2:08:18] Games.

[2:12:26] The wisdom of quitting when you’re ahead.