*Oh, We Understand It, We Just Don’t Like It *

Sometimes, we try to understand things to the end but we actually already understand them. We just don't like what we understand. We struggle with accepting what we know about others, situations, and ourselves. However, it is best to accept things as they are and fully embrace our understanding because it allows us to lean into our feelings of grief and disappointment. By accepting and not constantly seeking understanding, we have the opportunity to transcend the experience and learn from it. When we accept things as they are, we can move on, do better in the future, and serve ourselves well.