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#576: Morgan Housel — The Psychology of Money, Picking the Right Game, and the $6 Million Janitor

The Tim Ferriss Show

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The Man in the Cool Car Paradox

People often assume that others view them the way they view themselves, with an exaggerated sense of importance. This phenomenon, referred to as the 'Man in the Cool Car Paradox,' was observed by the speaker during their time working as a valet at a high-end hotel. They noticed that when luxury cars pulled in, they would admire the vehicles but never attribute the same level of coolness to the driver. Instead, they imagined themselves in the driver's seat, believing that others would perceive them as cool. This realization shed light on the way wealth and self-perception intersect, revealing that people focus on how others perceive them while simultaneously thinking about themselves. This universal tendency to prioritize one's own thoughts and self-image over the opinions of others underscores the paradoxical nature of the scenario.

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