Join the insightful Whitni Miller, a queer sex educator and pleasure coach, as she delves into the nuances of intimacy, safety, and desire. She emphasizes that safety, rather than spontaneity, is key to great sex. Whitni discusses the importance of non-sexual touch in long-term relationships and how queer identities reclaim authenticity. She unpacks the myths around responsive desire and pleasure, offers insights for late bloomers, and advocates for trauma-informed sex education, all while tackling the challenges of sharing valuable knowledge in a censored digital landscape.