Tim Baker, a surf writer and author of "Patting the Shark," shares his battle with Stage 4 prostate cancer. He candidly discusses how hormone therapy reshaped his identity and masculinity. Tim reflects on his nostalgic surfing memories and the emotional weight of his diagnosis, revealing how it affects his relationships, particularly with his children. He also explores the stigma around prostate cancer and the therapeutic role of surfing in coping with his journey, blending humor with poignant insights on resilience.