Lanier Ivester, a long-time friend of Annie F. Downs and author of 'Glad and Golden Hours,' shares her journey through grief and joy during the holidays. They reminisce about cherished memories in a beloved bookstore, weaving together nostalgia and connection. The conversation navigates the complex emotions of Advent and Christmas, highlighting the balance of sorrow and blessings. Lanier emphasizes the importance of traditions, self-care, and community, all while finding joy amidst personal struggles and challenges.