

Katherine Dee
Internet ethnographer, writer, and podcaster behind the Substack Default Friend, known for deep dives into online subcultures and analysis of digital communities.
Top 10 podcasts with Katherine Dee
Ranked by the Snipd community

29 snips
Mar 25, 2023 • 1h 14min
#606 - Katherine Dee - The Rise And Fall Of The Girlboss Meme
Katherine Dee, a writer and internet historian, dives into the wild world of female internet subcultures. She explores the origins and decline of the girlboss meme and what that reflects about modern femininity. Katherine discusses the evolving narratives of sexuality, touching on societal pressures and the impact of platforms like TikTok. She also shares insights on relationship dynamics, rejection sensitivity, and the importance of emotional intelligence in dating, making for a thought-provoking and entertaining conversation.

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Sep 22, 2025 • 1h 7min
Episode 277: Internet Poisoning (with Katherine Dee)
Katherine Dee, an insightful internet ethnographer and the voice behind the Substack Default Friend, joins for a fascinating discussion. They explore the wild evolution of online communities, from the quirky furries to the unsettling world of sissy hypno. Katherine delves into the dark side of digital culture, examining the motives behind violent acts like the Charlie Kirk shooting. As a parent, she shares her philosophy on limiting screen time to foster offline development and essential life skills.

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Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 6min
Young Men and Online Radicalization: Dissecting Internet Subcultures with Lee Fang, Katherine Dee, and Evan Barker
Katherine Dee, a culture writer specializing in internet subcultures, and Evan Barker, a former Democratic fundraiser, offer insightful commentary on the radicalization of young men online. They discuss the troubling rise of 'Zoomer sadism' and the dangers of social isolation exacerbated by the pandemic. The duo explores how mainstream political narratives often fail to address the real struggles faced by young men. They also dive into the ethics of free speech and cancel culture, highlighting the need for thoughtful dialogue in today's polarized climate.

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Aug 29, 2025 • 32min
Do mass shootings begin online?
Katherine Dee, a keen internet ethnographer and writer, dives into the unsettling dynamics surrounding online radicalization related to school shootings. She discusses the bizarre online presence of shooters, marked by a disarray of memes, nihilism, and political elements. Dee examines the fragmentation of identity among these individuals and raises concerns about anonymity and the fear of being overlooked. The conversation also touches on the darker influences of internet culture on youth and the chaotic aftermath of tragic events in the digital space.

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Mar 23, 2025 • 54min
Katherine Dee. Finding life where others don't.
In this engaging discussion, Katherine Dee, an insightful internet culture writer and author, dives into the transformative impact of AI on writing and fandom. She explores the intricate emotional connections people form with fictional characters, drawing parallels to ficto-romance. Katherine shares her experiences with AI, including how she uses ChatGPT to navigate her emotional life. They also discuss the evolving nature of fandom and literature in the digital age, blending creativity, technology, and the ethical dilemmas that come with it.

Feb 20, 2025 • 1h 26min
E326. Touch Grass vs Transhuman: The Battle of the New Digital Age - Katherine Dee
In a captivating conversation, Katherine Dee, a sharp commentator on the digital age, illuminates the chaotic impact of influencers, AI, and social media. She critiques the decline of legacy media, labeling TikTok as 'digital fentanyl,' and reveals our frantic pursuit of genuine connections in a screen-saturated world. The discussion spans the perils of digital parenting, the saturation felt by independent creators, and the haunting permanence of online content, presenting a thought-provoking look at our increasingly surreal reality.

Apr 7, 2024 • 45min
TikTok Culture - Katherine Dee | Maiden Mother Matriarch 67
Writer and online culture expert Katherine Dee discusses the positive aspects of TikTok, the internet's impact on women's sexuality, and the misconceptions about femcels. They explore diverse TikTok content, the intersection of technology and society, authenticity on Twitter and TikTok, and the influence of online spaces on women's sexuality.

Nov 2, 2023 • 51min
Katherine Dee — On Attention, Astroturfing and the Nostalgia Trap (EP.187)
Katherine Dee, a writer and journalist, discusses the role of Twitter in journalism, escaping the nostalgia trap, and healing our attention spans. They also explore the complexities of social class, the influence of social media platforms, and the tendency to romanticize the past. Other topics include attractive women on Twitter, etiquette, literature, and viral food trends.

Sep 12, 2024 • 54min
Katherine Dee: Digital Relationships, Loneliness Epidemic, & Predicting the Future with the Internet
Katherine Dee, an internet culture reporter and online personality known as Default Friend, dives into the shifting landscape of digital relationships. She discusses the loneliness epidemic and how social media impacts our personal connections. Katherine explores the nuances of AI companionship and the rise of fictosexuality, highlighting emotional ties that aren't always physical. Additionally, she addresses the ethical dilemmas of influencer culture and pro-Russian propaganda, reflecting on the complexities of navigating life in an increasingly digital world.

Feb 26, 2024 • 49min
How Tumblr Memes Became Political Ideas: Katherine Dee decodes the manosphere, Tumblr feminism, anime activism, and more
Discover how Tumblr memes influenced political ideas, from tradcels to girl boss backlash. Katherine Dee unpacks manosphere culture, Tumblr feminism, and more. Uncover the impact on dating, relationships, and societal norms. Explore the evolution of online discourse into mainstream politics and media circles, challenging gender perceptions and beauty standards.