Elif Batuman, author of 'The Idiot' and 'Either/Or', shares insights on her new novel, exploring the challenges faced by her alter ego, Selin, as a Harvard student in the 1990s. She delves into the evolution of female representation in literature and the shifting cultural narratives surrounding women's identities. Esther Bintliff discusses the complexities of feedback in the workplace, emphasizing emotional responses and effective methods like 'radical candor'. Together, they highlight the importance of understanding and compassion in personal and professional growth.