Katie Engelhart, a Pulitzer Prize-winning writer for The New York Times Magazine, delves into the emotional complexities of dementia through Diane Norellius's personal journey. They explore the ethical dilemmas families face when cognitive decline alters loved ones' desires. Topics include the tension between preserving autonomy and the need for care, the legal struggles surrounding power of attorney, and the bittersweet nature of navigating intimate relationships amidst severe memory loss. Their candid discussions illuminate the profound impact of dementia on identity and familial bonds.