Dabaco Sunset, a relational therapist, dives into the complexities of realizing one's queer identity while in a long-term hetero relationship. They explore the emotional challenges of breaking up, emphasizing the importance of honest communication and compassion. The conversation covers personal experiences, the bittersweet journey of self-discovery, and the role of professional guidance. Dabaco also highlights the need for community support to navigate feelings of guilt and shame post-breakup, providing insights on fostering a healthier relationship with oneself.