CJ Hauser, creative writing professor and author of two novels, discusses the themes explored in her viral essay and how they influenced her decision to write a book. They delve into societal expectations and individualized communication of love and happiness, as well as the process of rewriting personal narratives through essays. The speaker shares their experience of writing about a difficult relationship and their fascination with knights and quests. They also touch on data collection, overlooked contributions, and subverting narrative in storytelling.