Charlotte Graham-McLay, a New York Times journalist, shares her intimate experience with the family of Atta Elayyan, a victim of the Christchurch mosque shootings. She takes us through their heart-wrenching search for loved ones amidst chaos, revealing the agony of not finding answers. The discussion offers an emotional look at their cultural roots as Palestinian migrants, highlighting their struggle with grief, memory, and the resilience needed to honor the departed. Community support and the role of independent journalism are also underscored as vital in navigating such tragedies.