Chani Getter, a psychotherapist, queer activist, and interfaith minister, shares insights from her upcoming book, *Mapito: Embrace Yourself*. She dives into her transformative journey from an ultra-Orthodox background to healing through storytelling. Getter discusses the complexities of emotional responses in therapy, particularly for marginalized identities, and delves into the dynamics of fawning in relationships. She also highlights the importance of self-dating and personal rituals as pathways to self-discovery, underscoring the profound impacts of grief and identity.