Americano ‘Gentle parenting’ & why therapy might be harming children
Mar 11, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Abigail Shrier, a Wall Street Journal columnist and author of "Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up," explores the pitfalls of over-diagnosing mental health issues in children. She critiques modern parenting strategies, emphasizing the dangers of outsourcing emotional support to therapy and technology. Shrier argues that smartphone use exacerbates isolation, while therapeutic models may hinder resilience. Parents are encouraged to foster independence and engage in meaningful conversations about mental health, challenging current approaches.
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Mental Health Paradox
- Increased mental health funding and treatment haven't reduced depression and anxiety.
- They may be counterproductive, as rates of these issues have risen alongside increased resources.
Child Therapy Power Imbalance
- Children lack the autonomy to evaluate or stop therapy they're often pressured into.
- Therapists may pander to children for buy-in, creating a power imbalance and potentially worsening anxieties.
Essential Needs of Children
- Children need authoritative parents, loving communities, and independence, not excessive therapy.
- Prioritize in-person connection and reduce technology use to foster better mental well-being.
