SEXUALITY SERIES - "Shameless" w/ Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers

Dec 5, 2023

Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers, a sex educator and psychotherapist, discusses topics such as the impact of shame on sexual development, problems in sex education, the potential of hedonic education, deeper forms of sexual identity through tantra and entheogens, and the intersection of the conservative church, culture, and politics on sexual intimacy.

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ANECDOTE

Discovering Shame

Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers noticed a rise in self-hatred among students discussing normal sexual development.
This led her to research the impact of abstinence-only education and the purity movement.

ADVICE

Be an Ally

Become an ally to your child by engaging in open conversations about relationships, sexuality, and intimacy.
This builds trust and strengthens your connection with them during adolescence and beyond.

ADVICE

Ongoing Conversations

Engage in frequent conversations with your child about sex and relationships.
Use age-appropriate books and resources; stay two years ahead of your child's developmental stage.

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For episode 23, Layman is joined by Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a sex educator and psychotherapist, to explore questions around gender and sexual development; the impact of shame on sexual development, and the relationship of shame and guilt; the problems in recent and contemporary sex education in the United States; the possibilities for a hedonic education; deeper forms of sexual identity and development available through tantra and entheogens; and much more. Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a nationally known speaker, educator, and writer on sexual health and the biopsychosocial-sexual impact of sexual shame and trauma.

She is professor emerita of sexuality and marriage & family therapy at Seattle Pacific University. As a past board member for The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), Tina is at the forefront shaping change in the lives of professionals and families. As a preeminent voice on the impact of abstinence education, purity culture, and the failure to provide comprehensive sex education Dr. Sellers is frequently featured on podcasts, TV, documentaries, articles, and radio, including Spirituality & Health magazine, and NPR’s All Things Considered. In her acclaimed 2017 book, Sex, God and the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy, Dr. Sellers reveals how the western conservative church in collusion with American consumer-driven culture and politics, has infiltrated our core ability to attach to our partners and instruct our children to attach to theirs. Professional Website https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Shameless Parenting https://www.amazon.com/Shameless-Pare... Explore The Integral Stage on the Fathom app https://hello.fathom.fm/ Support The Integral Stage on Patreon! / theintegralstage Special thanks and big love to Shai Newman, the Limited Hangout guys, Brandon LaChance, Mike McElroy, Brandon Norgaard, Brendan Graham Dempsey, Francesca, and all of our other Patreon supporters!