The Disciple-Making Parent AudioBlog Asking Questions Rather Than Giving Commands
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Jan 9, 2026 Explore how asking questions can transform family dynamics. Discover a unique approach to reminding children about rules instead of issuing commands. Hear about a humorous candy cartoon that illustrates this concept. Gain insights into practical parent-child exchanges that facilitate understanding. Learn the benefits of using questions, from echoing Jesus' teaching methods to fostering self-control in children. Unpack the importance of defining family principles and know when it’s appropriate to use direct commands.
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Candy Cartoon Illustrates Rule Reminder
- A cartoon shows a child asking his grandfather for candy and being reminded of a family rule.
- Grandpa humorously claims his rule is 'bring me a piece too,' illustrating rule-based responses.
Ask Questions To Remind Rules
- Ask questions that prompt children to recall established family rules instead of issuing direct commands.
- Use questions to remind them of expectations and offer the next action or option.
Use Concrete Questions And Alternatives
- Use specific examples like 'What's our rule about snacks between meals?' to guide behavior.
- Follow the child's answer with an offered alternative, e.g., 'Would you like some slices of apple?'
