
The AEC Leadership Podcast Turning Chaos into Leadership Advantage – Ep 365
Jan 15, 2026
Rob Kalvaroski, an executive coach and MIT-trained strategist, shares his journey from burnout to inspiring leaders. He discusses the importance of turning internal chaos into a leadership advantage. Listeners will learn how to foster high-performing teams and embrace innovation amidst uncertainty. Kalvaroski emphasizes self-leadership for better decision-making and highlights the role of empathy in enhancing team engagement. His practical tools, like the 'I'm Human' breathing exercise, offer actionable insights for leaders to thrive in chaotic times.
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From Overachiever To Turning Point
- Rob describes his overachiever upbringing and 'Robot Rob' persona that prioritized external validation and achievement above wellbeing.
- He recounts depression and a 2013 suicide attempt that ultimately began his path to healing and leadership coaching.
Founder DIY Habit Blocking Growth
- Rob tells of a CEO client stuck at $3M who identified as a DIY founder and was blocking growth.
- After four coaching sessions the CEO realized he was holding the company back and began delegating effectively.
Chaos Is Higher Than Ever
- Global uncertainty and chaos are at unprecedented levels, higher than during the pandemic.
- That surge hijacks executive brain function, causing fight/flight/freeze responses and poor leadership decisions.

