The Sex Reimagined Podcast Leah & Dr. Willow: Jackhammer Mistake | Why Fast Sex Is Killing Your Connection And What To Do Instead | #159
Sep 30, 2025
Rushing to orgasm? You're missing the real magic of connection. Discover why slowing down during intimacy can enhance pleasure and strengthen relationships. The hosts explore the pitfalls of 'jackhammer' sex and how redefining intimacy beyond penetration opens new paths. Practical tips include using your senses, embracing foreplay as an ongoing journey, and prioritizing connection over performance. Learn techniques to recenter yourself and incorporate sensual touch, ensuring that every moment can bring you closer together.
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Slowing Sex Changes The Relationship
- Slow sex rewires connection, presence, and nervous system responses beyond physical pleasure.
- Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown argue that slowing down transforms sex into a relational journey, not a task.
Five-Minute Penetration That Felt Eternal
- Dr. Willow Brown recounts a five-minute slow penetrative experience that felt intensely present and novel.
- The slowness, eye contact, and first-time context made the short duration feel deeply erotic.
Use Senses To Overcome Performance Anxiety
- Use your senses to stay present when performance anxiety arises and avoid hyperfocus on erection performance.
- Focus on breath, touch, or sound to build sexual tension rather than fear-driven urgency.