The Breakfast Club Best of full interview: Ray J On Being Painted As A Villain Amid Kardashian Drama, Mario Verzuz, New Relationship + More
Jan 6, 2026
Ray J, the multifaceted singer, actor, and entrepreneur, delves into the challenges of public perception, feeling villainized amid his well-publicized connections with the Kardashians. He shares his journey of mental health, touching on therapy and self-control after overcoming substance use. The conversation also highlights his entrepreneurial success with Raycon and musical ventures, including exciting new projects. Ray J candidly discusses fatherhood, his desire for truth regarding the infamous sex tape, and the impact on his legacy.
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Streaming Became Personal Therapy
- Ray J describes streaming and chats as a form of therapy that reveals when his behavior goes viral and affects him emotionally.
- He says streaming amplified moments that became public perceptions and forced him to reckon with how he presents himself.
Accept Honest Calls To Improve
- When friends call you out, value honest conversations and use them to course-correct instead of getting defensive.
- Ray J credits direct talks with Charlamagne for prompting reflection and repair with family.
Don't Let Viral Crashes Drive Strategy
- Ray J warns that 'crashing out' behavior can boost impressions and short-term performance metrics online.
- Manage self-control and support systems to stop destructive attention cycles despite their algorithmic effectiveness.
