Become New with John Ortberg 7. The Worst Thank You in the Bible
Nov 18, 2025
This discussion reveals how gratitude can become self-centered and distorted. Featuring insights from notable thinkers, it highlights the dangers of narcissism and performative thankfulness. The parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector illustrates the contrast between false pride and true humility. By recognizing our own unworthiness, we cultivate authentic thankfulness. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to practice genuine gratitude and restore their spiritual connection.
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Gratitude Can Be Self‑Centered
- Gratitude can be corrupted into a self-help tool focused on personal well-being rather than on the giver.
- Turning gratitude inward strips it of its moral and relational significance.
The Temple Prayer Contrast
- John retells Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector to show two contrasting prayers at the temple.
- The Pharisee's proud thank-you contrasts with the tax collector's humble plea for mercy.
Gratitude Requires Recognizing Undeservedness
- Both men accessed the same reminder of God's mercy, but their responses differed based on their sense of entitlement.
- Real gratitude arises when a person recognizes they do not deserve the gift.