Paul Holdengräber, a master conversationalist known for engaging with influential figures, shares his unique approach to dialogue and connection. He reflects on his family's escape from the Nazis, his philosophical journeys, and the lessons learned from being jobless. The discussion highlights the importance of listening, the therapeutic nature of reminiscing, and how digression can reveal deeper truths. Through anecdotes, he explores identity, the complexities of human relationships, and the transformative power of meaningful conversations in a changing world.
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Parents' Escape and Reunion
Paul Holdengräber's parents fled Vienna in 1938, just before the borders closed.
They met and married in Haiti, one of 137 Jewish families there.
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Foucault's Recommendation
Michel Foucault wrote Paul Holdengräber's letter of recommendation to Princeton, which was only two lines long.
The letter focused on the well-founded premise of Holdengräber's work on nihilism.
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Hitchhiking as Education
Paul's father believed hitchhiking was essential for young men, teaching them to converse with anyone.
Paul hitchhiked extensively, even beating his father to Vienna by train.
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Paul Holdengraber, a renowned figure who has had conversations with some of the most influential figures of our times, discusses his unique approach and the pains and pleasures of life as a conversationalist. Andrea and Paul explore the profound impact of the art of conversation on forming deep connections. They also delve into Paul's background, influences, and the unpredictable paths life has taken him, from his parents' escape from the Nazis to his own philosophical and geographical journeys. Paul opens up about his recent jobless status, his reflections on care, conversation, and the power of listening, as well as contemplating the future in a rapidly changing world. Throughout, the discussion explores themes of transience, the creation of spaces for dialogue, and the importance of remaining open to the myriad possibilities life offers. The conversation weaves together topics such as the significance of digression, the therapeutic power of reminiscing on familial history, and the complexities of identity and human relationships. #artofconversation #holdengraber #andreahiott
00:00 Welcome to the Library: A Night of Conversation 00:29 Paul Holdengraber: A Man of Many Conversations 00:59 Exploring the New York Public Library with Paul 02:27 The Art and Power of Conversation 02:56 Paul's Unique Path: From Philosophy to Public Programming 05:12 Digression as a Form of Revelation 10:59 Returning to Roots: Conversations on Identity and Place 17:16 The Solitary Journey of a Conversationalist 22:16 Navigating Friendships and the Fear of Intimacy 26:42 Creating Landscapes of Conversation 32:03 From Hitchhiking to Hosting Influential Conversations 36:17 Unveiling the Art of Conversation and Personal Insights 37:40 Exploring Fame, Influence, and Personal Connections 38:56 The Craft of Creating Meaningful Conversations 40:26 Personal Reflections and Family Dynamics 52:09 The Power of Listening and the Art of Interviewing 59:26 Navigating Life's Transitions and Future Uncertainties 01:06:09 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Community Support 01:09:46 Contemplating New Beginnings and Creative Outlets
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