Sylvia Rohde-Liebenau: Can Leaders Harness Power Without Control?

Sylvia Rohde-Liebenau is a seasoned leadership coach and former corporate executive who has dedicated her career to helping senior leaders redefine their approach to power, energy, and legacy. In this episode, we dive deep into her transformative insights, captured in her latest book Who’s in Charge?, and explore how today’s leaders can thrive in a rapidly changing world.

One of the central themes we discussed is how power in leadership has evolved. According to Sylvia, “the old way of managing, based on force and control, doesn’t really work anymore.” She highlights that modern leadership is about shifting from control to collaboration. “If I want to collaborate with someone else, I can't have it all my way. I have to make some compromises…so that we together actually have more control, more power.” Her experience shows that when leaders adopt this mindset, they not only achieve better results but also foster healthier organizational cultures.

A notable aspect of our conversation is energy management. Sylvia brings a fresh perspective, moving beyond the traditional focus on physical stamina. “Many corporates have a gym, but only the best corporates have a meditation room or mindfulness courses,” she shares, advocating for a holistic approach to energy that includes mental and emotional well-being. She believes that managing your energy—and the energy of your team—is critical to sustaining performance. “It’s about understanding what your human energy is really made of… and how to reinforce, maintain, and extend it.”

Sylvia also touches on the idea of stillness as a powerful leadership tool. She explains that stillness isn’t about inactivity, but about being centered, especially in challenging moments. Reflecting on her own experiences, she recalls a time when she faced an angry Russian delegation: “I went really calm and said, ‘I’m so happy to meet you,’…because I was quiet and still inside, I could communicate with them with kindness.” Her ability to maintain stillness in the storm enabled her to connect and resolve the situation effectively—a lesson in how calm presence can amplify leadership impact.

We also explore the concept of legacy and how leaders can ensure their success is meaningful. Sylvia explains that many high-achieving leaders, as they near the later stages of their careers, start asking deeper questions. “I’ve seen leaders thinking, ‘I’m hugely successful, but is that really what I wanted to create in my life?’” She warns that “success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure,” urging leaders to align their work with their values and purpose.

Takeaways:

• Power is shifting: “It’s no longer about control; it’s about creating impact and collaborating for a common goal.”
• Energy matters: “Understanding your energy and how to manage it is key to staying effective and thriving as a leader.”
• Stillness is strength: “In moments of crisis or challenge, the leader who is calm, connected, and centered is the one who wields real power.”
• Legacy is personal: “Legacy is not about fame—it’s about living and leading in alignment with your values and creating something meaningful.”

Sylvia’s blend of practical advice and reflective wisdom offers a roadmap for leaders who want to move beyond outdated models of leadership. If you're curious about how to lead with true power and create lasting impact, this episode offers deep insights that will inspire and challenge you.