This episode of Awesome Etiquette covers topics like conversation poaching, setting boundaries with family members, gym etiquette, and Halloween decorations. The hosts also share their experience watching a Taylor Swift movie at the theater and discuss the benefits of Factor, a meal delivery service.
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Quick takeaways
Always say both names when encountering a hyphenated name to avoid leaving out one part.
When waiting for a machine at a crowded gym, hang around and do light exercises nearby.
When dealing with a challenging stepfather, set boundaries to prioritize your own mental health.
Deep dives
Importance of Acknowledging Hyphenated Names
It is important to always say both names when encountering a hyphenated name, to avoid leaving out one part of their name.
Navigating Gym Etiquette
When waiting for a machine at a crowded gym, it is a good practice to hang around the machine and do light exercises or stretching nearby until it becomes available. Inquire about the gym's official policies or best practices to ensure respectful behavior.
The Excitement and Challenges of Halloween
Halloween can be both enjoyable and cheesy at times, but it holds significance for individuals, families, and communities. Embrace the traditions and excitement of the holiday while respecting the etiquette of candy distribution and timely preparation.
Hosting a Birthday Party: Covering Expenses or Asking Guests to Contribute
When hosting a birthday party in a rented space, it can be a dilemma to decide whether to cover all the expenses yourself or ask guests to contribute. One option is to fully host the party, covering the costs of food, drinks, and the rental of the venue. This can be a rewarding experience for the host, who gets to celebrate their birthday exactly how they want. However, if that is not financially feasible, there is no need to forgo a birthday celebration. In this case, it is important to communicate with guests using organizing language rather than traditional invitation wording. Let them know that you have rented a room and there are food and drink options available if they choose to engage. Instead of including instructions on the invitation, consider having phone conversations with potential guests to explain the details. By being clear, respectful, and understanding of different financial situations, you can successfully navigate the dilemma of asking guests to contribute without causing offense or inconvenience.
Setting Boundaries with a Difficult Family Relationship
Dealing with a challenging stepfather who has little interest in maintaining a relationship can be emotionally draining. While it is important to respect your mother's desire for peace, it's equally vital to prioritize your own mental health. Setting boundaries in this situation requires careful consideration. You have the power to decide how to handle this relationship while balancing your own well-being and the needs of your mother. It may be beneficial to compartmentalize different types of communication. For holidays and special family events, make an effort to engage politely and maintain social cohesion. However, for one-on-one communication, you can prioritize your mental health by limiting your interactions with your stepfather. It's essential to evaluate the benefits and costs of this relationship and make choices that align with your own self-respect and overall well-being.
Welcome to Awesome Etiquette, where we explore modern etiquette through the lens of consideration, respect and honesty. On today’s show, we take your questions on conversation poachers, large parties with no split checks, setting boundaries with family members, and waiting for machines at the gym. For Awesome Etiquette Community Members our question is about riding in an Uber where the driver makes an illegal turn. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute, and a postscript on, "BOO!", Trick-or-Treat Etiquette!
