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#371 Domination and Anal Training - with King "Daddy" Heff AKA the Duke of Debauchery

Mar 5, 2024
King "Daddy" Heff, a sexual enhancement product specialist from Charlotte, NC, dives deep into the world of BDSM and anal training. He passionately shares that "in submission there is freedom" and explains how to embrace dominance responsibly. With humor and expertise, he discusses the sensual art of impact play and the nuances of anal training. Heff emphasizes the importance of consent, trust, and communication in intimate relationships, encouraging everyone to explore their desires while fostering healthy, fulfilling connections.
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ANECDOTE

From Demo To Professional Dom

  • King Heff discovered BDSM interest after being spanked and attending demos while in the lifestyle.
  • A demo where a woman orgasmed from his choking/spanking led to paid work and professional domging.
INSIGHT

Submission Is Earned, Dominance Is Responsible

  • Submission requires trust because it is earned, not given freely.
  • Dominance carries responsibility to protect the submissive's safety and boundaries.
ADVICE

Train Before You Dom

  • Learn skills and safety before attempting dominant acts like choking or impact play.
  • Take classes, practice negotiation, and prioritize consent and boundaries every time.
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