A tale of China's two great cities: Beijing & Shanghai
Oct 12, 2023
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Heyang, Yushun, and Josh Cotterill discuss the strengths and differences between Beijing and Shanghai as friendly rivals. They also explore the unique characteristics of each city, the role of fashion in Shanghai, job satisfaction in big cities, and the challenges of maintaining long-distance relationships.
Beijing and Shanghai have different strengths, with Shanghai having a larger GDP and population, while Beijing has more tech and Chinese companies headquartered there.
Long distance relationships require regular communication, trust, and effective communication to survive.
Deep dives
Beijing vs. Shanghai: A Friendly Rivalry
Beijing and Shanghai, two prominent Chinese cities, are often compared and contrasted. Shanghai has a larger GDP and population, while Beijing has more tech and Chinese companies headquartered there. There is a friendly rivalry between the two cities, with stereotypes and biases being thrown around. However, both cities have their own strengths and offer unique lifestyles. They are both convenient in terms of transportation and daily necessities. The pressure of living in big cities can be challenging, but it is important to enjoy life and seize opportunities. Ultimately, both cities provide options for individuals to forge their own paths.
Navigating a Long Distance Relationship
Long distance relationships can be emotionally challenging and require effort from both partners. Regular communication and sharing are important to maintain a connection. Planning visits and having a clear timeline of when the long distance will end is crucial. Trust is a key factor in sustaining the relationship, and it can be tested when physically apart. It is important to establish boundaries, set goals, and communicate openly to maintain trust. Long distance relationships require time, effort, and effective communication to survive.
Comparing Long Distance Relationships and Chinese Culture
Long distance relationships are not new in Chinese culture, with some couples living in separate cities due to job commitments. The household registration system in China can influence the choices of couples. However, most people would prefer to be physically together unless it is absolutely necessary to be apart. Surviving a long distance relationship involves negotiating a timeline to be together, regular in-person meetings, and establishing trust. Time, goal-setting, and effective communication play crucial roles in maintaining trust and keeping the relationship strong.
Cities in the same country can be friendly rivals with different strengths. Their differences add to the uniqueness of the country. We take the pair of Beijing and Shanghai and see in what aspect does one outshine the other? / How to navigate a long-distance relationship (20:43)? On the show: Heyang, Yushun & Josh Cotterill
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