Author M. E. O'Brien advocates for the abolition of the family in her book 'Family Abolition: Capitalism and the Communizing of Care.' She traces the changing family politics of racial capitalism, discusses struggles for chosen family in queer and trans liberationist circles, explores the Haka commune and the role of the family, delves into the concept of family abolition and its ties to capitalism, examines historical movements against normative family structures, and envisions a future commune emerging from insurgent social reproduction. The podcast also explores the popularity of abolishing the police during the George Floyd rebellion.
Family abolition seeks to reimagine alternative models of care and solidarity beyond the limitations of the traditional bourgeois family structure.
Right-wing politics idealize and defend traditional gender roles within the family as a means of reclaiming patriarchal authority and preserving social order.
The narrow focus on supporting the normative family structure by liberals and social democrats may hinder the broader desires and possibilities for more expansive forms of collective care and solidarity.
Deep dives
The Emergence of Family Abolition
The concept of family abolition has gained traction in recent years, particularly since the 2008 economic crisis. Many queer and trans individuals have turned to Marxism and anti-capitalist thinking, pushing for a reimagining of the traditional family structure. The erosion of the normative family form, the crisis in working-class life, and the desire for something different have all contributed to the resurgence of family abolition. This movement seeks to go beyond the limitations of the bourgeois family and envision a new form of social reproduction that is not solely dependent on the private household. By challenging traditional notions of the family, family abolition aims to create alternative models of care and solidarity.
The Fascist Imaginary of the Family
On the right, there has been an intensification of a fascist politics centered around a romanticized and idealized vision of the family. Viewing social changes, such as LGBTQ+ rights and increased diversity, as threats to social order, this fascist imaginary seeks to reclaim patriarchal authority and enforce traditional gender roles. The family is seen as the bedrock of society, and defending and preserving this idealized family form is central to right-wing thinking.
Liberals and Social Democrats: Embracing the Family
Liberals often romanticize the family, promoting the idea that the family should provide care and support that reduces the need for state intervention. Social democrats, on the other hand, may oppose family abolition and defend the normative family structure. While there are strategic advantages to framing policies in terms of supporting families, it is important to recognize that this narrow focus limits the desires and possibilities of working-class struggles. By exclusively framing their politics in terms of the family, social democrats risk neglecting the broader desires and yearnings for more expansive forms of collective care and solidarity.
Speculative Visioning and Family Abolition
Speculative thinking and visionary politics play an important role in the family abolition movement. Since the 1970s, the traditional family form has become less attainable, leading to a crisis in how society imagines patriarchal authority within the household. Speculative visions allow us to desire something more and different than capitalist society and to push beyond the limitations of the traditional family structure. While not offering a blueprint for a future society, speculative thinking helps us articulate and envision revolutionary horizons beyond the family, recognizing the collective desires and possibilities within working-class struggles.
The Importance of Speculative Writing
Speculative writing allows us to imagine alternative futures and challenge the limitations of the present. It acknowledges that our desires, yearnings, and struggles hint at different revolutionary horizons. While not providing a definitive plan for change, speculative writing opens up space to think beyond the constraints of the current system and envision new possibilities. Incorporating speculative visioning into our organizing and theorizing is essential for cultivating a transformative and revolutionary politics.
For many of us on the left, it would probably be uncontroversial to say that seek a political horizon in which class society, and all of its manifold expressions, has been overcome - wage labour, private property, the capitalist state, white supremacy, settler colonialism and anti-Blackness. But what about the family? In a world that is often bereft of love, compassion and stability, it seems far more controversial to call for its abolition as well.
'Family Abolition' may be an alarming slogan, but this is what M. E. O’Brien argues for in her fantastic new book, Family Abolition: Capitalism and the Communizing of Care. Published by Pluto Press in June 2023, the book traces the changing family politics of racial capitalism in the industrial cities of Europe and in the slave plantations and settler frontier of North America, explaining the rise and fall of the housewife-based family form. From early Marxists to Black and queer insurrectionists to today's mass protest movements, O'Brien finds revolutionaries seeking better ways of loving, caring, and living. Taking us beyond the past and present of family politics, Family Abolition looks also to the future, into a speculative vision of the revolutionary commune, imagining how care could be organized in a free society.
M. E. O'Brien writes on gender and communist theory. She co-edits two magazines, Pinko, on gay communism, and Parapraxis, on psychoanalytic theory and politics. Her work on family abolition has been translated into Chinese, German, Greek, French, Spanish, and Turkish. She received her PhD from NYU. She is the co-author of the novel Everything for Everyone: An Oral History of the New York Commune, 2052–2072. She tweets @genderhorizon.
---
Podcast listeners can get 40% off the book on plutobooks.com with the coupon PODCAST.
Get the Snipd podcast app
Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
AI-powered podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Discover highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode
Save any moment
Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways
Share & Export
Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more
AI-powered podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Discover highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode