
 The Spiritual Life with Fr. James Martin, S.J.
 The Spiritual Life with Fr. James Martin, S.J.  Why you need a spiritual director
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 Oct 21, 2025  In this enlightening discussion, guest Patrick Gilger, S.J., a Jesuit sociologist and trained spiritual director, unpacks the essence of spiritual direction. He clarifies what it is—and isn't—distinguishing it from therapy and confession. Gilger shares how spiritual direction can deepen one’s relationship with God and discusses the importance of finding a qualified director. Personal anecdotes illustrate common misconceptions about prayer, while practical tips are offered for discovering the right spiritual guide tailored to your needs. 
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Director Helps You Notice God
- A spiritual director helps you notice where God is active in prayer and daily life.
- The director's role is to point attention, not to replace the Holy Spirit.
Don’t Conflate Direction With Therapy
- Don't confuse spiritual direction with confession, therapy, or pastoral counseling.
- Ask your director where God is in your problem rather than seeking psychological solutions there.
Get A Director To Spot Blind Spots
- Get a spiritual director because they spot God's presence you're likely missing.
- Directors also challenge you and help you progress over years by noticing recurring patterns.



