In Confidence with Lisa Sun: A Gravitas Podcast Episode 16: Have You Ever Been Called Bossy? You're Not Alone and You're Not The Problem
Have you ever been called bossy, cold, or intimidating at work? Or been told you're too quiet to lead? In this episode of In Confidence, we unpack the triple standard women face at work and how it affects how we’re perceived, promoted, and valued. Through personal stories, surprising research, and tactical ways to reframe the narrative, Lisa shares how the Leading superpower can be both your greatest strength and your most misunderstood quality. Learn how to expand the scorecard for success, advocate for yourself in real time, and lead with both clarity and connection.
Let’s redefine what leadership really looks like.
00:00 Intro
00:43 Defining the Triple Standard
02:58 The Hidden Bias Behind Promotion
03:57 Expanding the Scorecard and Helping Women Embrace and Appreciate Their Superpowers
05:40 How to Respond When You've Been Called Bossy
10:04 Balancing Leadership with Connection
13:46 Final Thoughts: You're Not Bossy, You're Leading
14:57 Outro
15:23 Disclaimer
Connect With Us So You Never Miss a Moment of Inspiration:
Visit Our Website
Get Our Best-Selling Book in Paperback
Follow Gravitas on Instagram
Follow Lisa on Instagram
Connect with Lisa on LinkedIn