I sit down with Roger for a powerful conversation about intimacy, leadership, and the courage it takes to be fully honest in a relationship. We explore how childhood wounds can carry into adult partnerships, and the work it takes to break free from old cycles of shame and avoidance. Roger opens up with deep vulnerability, and together we unpack what it means to step into responsibility and create real connection.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Opening & Welcome

00:52 – Roger’s Relationship Struggles

04:08 – Intimacy & Connection Challenges

07:56 – The Cycle of Avoidance

13:29 – Childhood Roots with Mom

20:05 – Healing the Inner Boy

28:22 – Facing the Partner with Honesty

35:30 – Learning to Be Okay with Disappointment

42:35 – Separating Self from Validation

47:29 – Commitments for Change

52:19 – Micro Moments of Leadership

53:18 – Closing Reflections

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