Shameless Should we all be bored?
Nov 9, 2025
The hosts dive into a viral Vogue article questioning whether having a boyfriend is now considered embarrassing. They explore how modern women present relationships on social media, from obscured partners to solo wedding shots. The discussion ventures into boredom: is it a catalyst for deep thinking or just a romanticized concept? They also tackle practical tips for unplugging and navigating genuine downtime, sharing personal activities that help them disconnect from screens.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Partner Displays Have Gone Coy
- Social posting about partners is shifting toward coy, obscured displays rather than full hard launches.
- That change may reflect a desire to keep benefits of partnership without appearing boyfriend-obsessed.
Visibility No Longer Equals Validation
- Visibility of relationships doesn't equal social value the way it used to.
- Being single is increasingly framed as a flex even if societal structures still favour partnered people.
Boredom vs. Guided Reflection
- Proponents argue boredom lets minds wander to existential questions that spur insight.
- Critics counter you can achieve reflection through books, therapy, or conversation without enforced boredom.
