Party promoter extraordinaire Vanessa Craig joins the podcast to discuss the essence of queer parties and their role in providing a sense of belonging. They touch on nostalgic moments from the 90s LA lesbian scene, the significance of queer night life in today's world, and the emotional intensity involved in hosting inclusive events.
Queer parties provide safe spaces for LGBTQ+ community, fostering connections and acceptance.
Value of pleasure products in self-discovery and sex education emphasized by sex toy brand.
Inclusivity, accessibility, and community ethos are vital in organizing successful parties.
Deep dives
Vanessa's New Director of Marketing Position at Magic Wand
Vanessa expresses excitement about starting a new job as the Director of Marketing for a well-known sex toy brand, Magic Wand. She highlights the value of pleasure products in self-discovery and sex education, emphasizing the brand's commitment to making pleasure more accessible.
Discussing Queer Parties and Lesbian Culture
Vanessa engages in a discussion about queer parties and lesbian culture, exploring what makes a good party and delving into nostalgic memories of lesbian culture in the '90s. She underscores the importance of inclusivity, accessibility, and community ethos in party organizing.
Vanessa's First Celebrity Crushes
Vanessa shares her first celebrity crushes, including a character from an older TV show and iconic figures like Sharon Stone and characters from 'Mi Vida Loca.' She reflects on the impact of these crushes on her personal journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
Exploring Masturbation Experiences
Vanessa candidly discusses her first significant experience with masturbation, detailing a memorable moment of self-discovery in a unique setting. She reflects on how this experience influenced her perspective on female sexuality and empowerment, highlighting the importance of personal pleasure.
The Significance of Queer Parties and Nightlife
Vanessa emphasizes the vital role of queer parties and nightlife in providing safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. She reflects on the importance of creating inclusive environments that foster connections, healing, and acceptance, contrasting them with traditional straight spaces and commercialized events.
Reciprocity and Community in Party Hosting
Vanessa reflects on the reciprocal nature of party hosting, highlighting the mutual exchange between hosts and attendees in creating vibrant, authentic spaces. She emphasizes the importance of community engagement, space-holding, and the collaborative spirit that fuels successful queer events.
Party promoter extraordinaire, Celesbian, and friend of the pod, Vanessa Craig, joins us to talk queer parties. What makes for a memorable party? How does queer night life make us feel seen and give us a sense of belonging? Why are parties especially needed with all that’s going on in the world? You know we also indulge in some nostalgia for the 90s LA lesbian scene! Tea is served. Robin tells Sarah all about an epic Peter Berlin inspired performance she took part in at a party Vanessa produced for OUTFEST in a “fucking slay” segment to close the episode.
Vanessa can be found at her monthly Sunday party, Magiq Hour, on the patio of Little Joy in LA. The next event, Collage and Cry, will be Sunday Jan 7th 3-8 pm. Admission is free. Check out @magiq_hour on IG. To find Vanessa (or more info about her “The World is Watching” shirt featuring Palestinian journalist Plestia Alaqad) give her a follow @VanessaCraigslist
