

Rita Dove — Eurydice, Turning
16 snips Apr 11, 2022
Former U.S. Poet Laureate Rita Dove discusses using myth to communicate with her mother suffering from memory loss. Themes of gentleness, love, and patience unravel in a phone call, merging personal experiences with Greek mythology.
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Evening Phone Rituals Reveal Change
- Rita Dove describes calling home each evening as her brother answers and sometimes passes the phone to their mother.
- The brief exchanges reveal a changed relationship where small phrases like “Hello, Rita” carry deep emotional weight.
Myth Illuminates Recognition Versus Change
- Rita Dove likens hearing her mother's voice to Orpheus hearing Eurydice, mistaking presence for permanence.
- The myth highlights how recognition can mask irreversible change in a loved one.
Letting Go As A Needed Grief
- The Orpheus myth becomes a lesson about letting go and accepting that beloveds may exist in different times simultaneously.
- Rita Dove uses this to show the necessity of grieving without trying to restore the past.