Are You a Leader or Just Pretending? A Harsh Wake-Up Call with Leadership Coach Philip Folsom

In this episode of The Optimist, Philip Folsom explores the crisis of masculinity and leadership in modern society. Drawing from his extensive experience, Folsom reveals how the breakdown of traditional kinship systems has left men disconnected from purpose and authentic leadership. The conversation delves into shocking statistics about veteran suicide rates and examines why modern men struggle to find meaning in a culture of isolation. Folsom shares powerful insights about the difference between true leadership through service versus mere power, and offers practical wisdom for rebuilding authentic connections in today's disconnected world. Key topics covered: The critical importance of kinship systems and tribal belonging Why modern men remain "uninitiated" and stuck in adolescent mindsets The parallel between military training and psychological transformation Practical steps for developing authentic leadership and purpose The vital difference between service-based and power-based leadership Whether you're interested in leadership, personal development, or understanding modern masculinity, this episode provides essential insights for anyone seeking to build stronger connections and more meaningful communities.