RAPID ROMANCE: Psychological Secrets For Dating Mating and Relating FREE Street -level NLP Lecture

Today, Dr. Snyder is going to talk about the Psychological Secrets for Dating, Mating, and Relating. He will give a full NLP Lecture about attraction and how we can engineer the ideal relationship. Stay tuned!

Standout Quotes:

• “Every one of us is moving through the world with an internal checklist and we're projecting it on to everyone around us. Every time we meet a person, we automatically look if they match with that checklist. And to the degree that the person you're interacting with matches your checklist, they get to go to the next level faster.”
• “The people that we attract in our life are more often based on templates or people that we identified with as children or in our early years. They have that place of being the ultimate authority in our lives. We start to project that onto the world and we look for those people.”
• “Intimacy comes from the sameness, from the openness, and the sharing. The excitement comes from the differences.”

Key Takeaways:

• You have a checklist. You have a hierarchy of what's important to you, not just in terms of qualities. You have a map that you're moving through the world looking for somebody to fit. And to the degree that they fit that map, you become very attracted to that person. You become desiring for more intimacy with that person.

• We identify with the voices and the dominant authority figures in our life. They become the template by which we start to create our own checklists. We unconsciously sought for if they match or nor and if they are familiar or unfamiliar.

• You need to have enough similarities that you're safe, but enough differences that you're exciting. When it's all one polarity, that's where the intimacy and the passion comes from.

Episode Timeline:

[00:58] Secret Orgasm Tips

[02:51] The Internal Checklist

[07:28] Do you keep attracting the same kind of person in your life?

[10:25] The Bottom Line

[12:24] Engineering your Ideal Relationships

[21:50] Pay Attention

[24:18] Reactance

[27:35] Language Patterns

[30:53] The Cause of Most Trouble in Relationships

[38:11] Understanding the Dynamics of Relationships

[45:11] Remembering where you were most Attractive

[50:10] The Rockstar Technique

[58:40] Acceptance Rejection Projection Connection