235 | Session Savvy: Neutral Language in the Child-Centered Playroom

In this Session Savvy episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I discuss the potential impact of using the word "silly" in the playroom and why it’s essential to choose language carefully in child-centered play therapy (CCPT). Words like "silly," while often used with positive intent, can carry unintended connotations based on the child’s prior experiences. I explain how such words might be interpreted as negative, depending on the child’s history with adults using that term in critical or dismissive ways.

To ensure clarity and neutrality, I recommend replacing evaluative language like "silly" with narrative commentary or tracking behavior. For example, instead of saying, "You’re being silly," describe the behavior directly: "You’re giggling" or "You’re running around with your arms in the air." This approach reduces the risk of misinterpretation and keeps the focus on the child’s actions, supporting the therapeutic relationship.

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