

Huge week for the group chat
81 snips Mar 28, 2025
Max Reed, a writer for New York Magazine and Substack specializing in internet culture, joins Tatum Hunter, an internet culture reporter at the Washington Post, to dissect group chats and texting etiquette. They dive into the evolution of group chats, spotlighting a viral incident that showcases how casual messages can transform into public spectacles. The duo also discusses the importance of clarity in texting, the rise of private chats, and the unique challenges they bring to interpersonal relationships. Humor and insight abound as they navigate this digital landscape.
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Max Reed's Group Chat Habits
- Max Reed participates in various group chats, including one dedicated to the movie Hunt for Red October.
- Another chat ironically focuses on analyzing Ross Douthat's New York Times columns.
Rise of Private Group Chats
- The shift to private group chats was influenced by "context collapse" on platforms like Facebook.
- People sought more private spaces after realizing the potential for unintended audiences to see their posts.
Group Chat Lifecycle
- Delete group chats once their purpose is fulfilled, like after a trip or project.
- Maintain ongoing chats for relationships like family, where communication is continuous.